I roto i-ture - he whaea tuarua? Mother i roto i te ture, me te tamahine i roto i te ture: te whaktauiratia o ngā hononga

He maha taitamariki kotiro, te kimi i te tane e hiahiatia taka ki "te reinga." Ratou i teie nei a ka faaite ki o ratou girlfriends, ētahi wā hauwarea, wheako. "I roto i-ture -! He makutu tūturu taonga katoa" ranei "! E kore e ora hoatu", mea ratou. He pono tenei? He reira taea ki te whakatū i tētahi nui take o te wahine? A ahakoa e kore ranei ki te tamata? Kia tūhura i te.

te huru matau

E matau ana koe, he mea nui ki te takoto i te pereki tuatahi o te hononga kia e reira e kore te kotinga te "taiepa" me e kore e taka ki runga ki o koutou kākā matenga me taunu. mahino koe e i roto i-ture - he whaea aroha to koutou hoa aroha? Ko nga mea katoa i reira, kahore he mea aha e whakatika te āhuatanga, engari me mahara tonu koutou e ko te reira - te iwi taketake. A feruri, i roto i te meka i roto i te takotoranga kai e noho ana ia i te po, kia tupato, me te tango i te tiaki o tenei tamaiti iti i konei, e homai nei e koe kia nui oaoa. I roto i-ture - ko te wahine e kua haumi i roto i to koutou tino kore whakamahana anake o koutou ngakau, engari ano hoki i te kaha me te hauora tenei. Ka poipoia ia ka atawhai ia i a ia, ia ia i whakaara ki he tautoko hoki koutou me te tautoko. nga mea katoa a koutou te aroha i roto i tana tahu, kahore i reira "na roto i te natura". No te tau maha, haora i muri i te haora, te wahine ana whakaaro me kupu i hanga te huru o te aroha: hoki koutou - he hoa, mo tana - tana tama. Pehea e taea wareware koe e? Mother i roto i te ture, me te tamahine i roto i te ture, e pea ki te totohe, ki te titiro tatou ki te take ao, whaea, me te wahine e mo te tangata tino aroha, me te faatura e te wahine. Kia noho tahanga ahau totohe, maha hanga ki runga ki egoism hauwarea, haehae tona wairua, akina ki te whiriwhiri? I muri i te katoa, aroha koutou e rua reira, e hiahia ana ahau te oaoa a koutou.

Me pēhea te ki te matau i te reira?

Kia aroha mai, e kore e nga tohenga i runga ake te āwhina ki te whakaoti i te pātai mahi ohie, engari tino nui. No mea te tini o a'oraa e pā ana ki te aroha te ao, a ka kia mohio ki te haere mai puta noa te meka mâro-: i roto i-ture - he wahine e kua e rua huapai me ngā huakore. Otiia ara e kore ko tenei te mea tino nui. Kei te mohiotia te reira e ora anahera i roto i te rangi. Tenei he iwi mau katoa. e kore he tino rerekē i ia atu i runga i te Mother i roto i te ture, me te tuahine i roto i te ture "te taumata o te tapu." Ia tika whakaaro me ta ko e kore te ara koe whakamahia ki. I te tahi taime e mea taea noa ki te matau i te arorau o ona mahi. Te āhua e kua ki tonu ratou i te mauahara ranei i te iti rawa rüpahu. I roto i tenei take, e tūtohu ana ki te whakatakotoria peka peka mo te roanga o kare, me te kohuki e. A feruri na e noho te tane me te whaea i roto i te ture mō ngā tau maha "i roto i tona wāhi motuhake". No kahore e ratou i ohorere, kihai ia i wawao. Na inaianei i reira e koe! Hoki a ia - ko te tukanga māori tenei. Ia koutou i whiriwhiri. A kia hamani ia rite, ahakoa tika "fakaaoao"? I muri i te katoa, e "kahore whakaaetanga" wahia koutou ki tona ao iti, te ofatiraa i tona tikanga whakapumautia. Koe-me pehea hoki taua e hamani?

Ko reira nui pakeke?

He fehangahangai ki te pōhēhē tuatahi, whaea i roto i te ture, me te tamahine e ngana ana ki te whakamatau, "ko wai te mea nui atu." E ko, totohu ratou ki te whakataetae noa mo te ngakau me whakaaro o te tangata utu, i ētahi wā i waho whakaaro e pā ana ki te pehea, ki te hoatu i te reira āhuatanga whakatūahu. Well, Ko reira pea noa atu pera maha tupu. E kore Me tuku e koe mea 'auhia, "hopu i te kau". Ko reira, ahakoa, te mahi o te wahine teina. Te aha? Ae, ki te anake te mea ko reira whawhati koutou ki tona ao. e kore e whai te reira ki te whakatuwhera i te reira ki a koutou. Ki te ite koe e he reira e tika ana ki te hoatu ara, i roto i te wa ki te "taahiraa peka" ki te tuku moni he nui atu nui atu i whakamatautau tona indispensability he ringa, na ka kitea e tatou he hoa pono. E kore koe e tamata ki te riria tatou me ētahi atu e kawea koutou hoa aroha mau hinaaro fakatikitató pōhewahewa? Kei te tenei makutu taea ara taua he, 'ofa, te tiaki tangata ngawari? Ko te te wāhi katoa. I roto i-ture, me te tamahine-hono rawa kaha, ahakoa kore ite tonu reira. Ratou - te kaitiaki o te rangimarie o te ngakau e rua tangata i aroha ai. Ko wai te tuatahi ka matau - te whakaaro.

Mō te hae

Tera atu ano tetahi raruraru, i te mea i ētahi wā e taea ki te whakamārama ki te whakapai ake i whanaunga i roto i te utuafare. Ko te hae. Kua haumi wahine tona ngakau, me te wairua ki roto ki tana tama, e kore e tonu hoatu ake te "tika ki a ia." e kore ia e hiahia ki te kia whakaaro (i roto i te kino take) e ka reira ona ake te ora. e kore e korero te reira e pā ana ki tona siokitá tetahi ino morare ranei. Ko reira kia māori e kore i ite tonu ia te wahine. E kore tātari katoa ratou mau mana'o huna, ka mohio rite te papamuri noa. I mua i Me tonu ratou ki te tiki ki te raro. Me āwhina i te iwi î i te here Here. Ehara i te mea tino te taua whaea "taniwha" o to koutou tane? Ki te ata pana koe i te reira i roto i te ahunga tika, ka mōhio ia e ka hoatu atu tona uri, koutou ake wāhi. whakaaro tika, te tika wahine marena hou me te whaea-i roto i (heke mai) mo te wa tuatahi. Ko ia mana'o, kei te whakaaro ia e pā ana ki? E mea pinepine e homai te whaea i roto i te tata tuatahi. "Tenei tetahi e ohovale" ngā poi "e taku tama?!" - whakaaro ia. E ai ki ngā tatauranga, te mana'o tuatahi i te kotiro he kino tana tama. taea tetahi mea e meatia. E kore te mea tenei te mama kino wahine marena hou he nui te aroha mo tana tama. hiahia ia hoki a ia i te "pai" wahine.

Me pēhea te ki te akakoromaki i hae

Otiia ko reira he mea o to koutou mātauranga, te manawanui me te mărû e. E mohio ana koe he aha te mea kia ofati te hononga faaipoiporaa te "mangu" hae-i roto i-ture tenei? No te mea e kore e te taitamariki tino o koe! Ki te whakapono pono koe i roto i te aroha o tona aroha, ka tetahi mea e mutu ki te oaoa. A ka ite hūhi - whakatuwhera ratou te tatau ki raruraru. Tuarua - e kore e nunumi mai i tona whaea i roto i te ture. Ia ia e kore e "whakatau". Heoi e kore whakaaro e tika ana. I te anga ke! He mea tika ki te haere me te mărû e i roto i o koutou hoapā whaiaro. Te kitenga koutou moni haavare ore i roto i tona tangata, ka āta te wahine te huri i te mana'o tuatahi. Koa, me te whaea-i roto i-ture ka hei te pai o hoa, ara ratou, kahore tatari. He mea tika anake ana ki te hanga i te taahiraa i mua. Na ratou i roto i te wa e taea e i roto i tenei āhuatanga. A e kore e mea e riro koutou rite tetahi tamahine! Whakatupuranga huri, kua hanga hapu, me te raruraru e tau ana "riro". He ia kotahi otinga - ki te hamani ia atu ki te aroha me te matauranga.

Ti'aturi i runga i nga tangata katoa (ranei tata)

Ko te whakatūnga o te hononga ki tona whaea i roto i te ture, he mea e minaminatia ki te whakauru i te wahine Māori. He aha ui? Na rite ki "kāpia" e ka e taea ki te mahi i te semeio no te te wa roa, me te waihanga i te kapu pakaru. Just kore e ui mo "korero ki toku mama." E kore e tauturu i te reira. Engari hanga he hararei whānui, e kore e te aparauraa o ngā pātai tahunga mahi i waho reira. hanga Life i muri i te katoa te ake o nga mea iti. tea teie mahana. Apopo - tohutohu i runga i te whakakakara, ka ui mo te tunu keke. Ēnei kaupae iti, me te hanga te pai. Ki te tonu ki to koutou aroha hono, ka tiki i te reira i te tere katoa. kite koe, e hiahia ana koe ki te hoatu i runga i te mahanahana, me te aroha e 'rere' i waenganui i te tane me te koe, ia me tona whaea i roto i te ture. Neke atu i te wa, ka tupu tenei kapua ki ngā āhuatanga katoa o whanaunga.

He korero patupaiarehe mo te tirohanga whāinga o mea

Te tangata kia mea e kore ko tino tika te kōrero o Kingi Horomona. Heoi, ko te tikanga o taua mea he e he reira tika tonu ki te mahara me te tono i roto i te mahi. Kia mahara pehea i whakatata ia e rua nga wahine, ia o nei ko ki te tiaki i te mana o te tamaiti? Aha i ia mea? faaoti ia ki te wehe i te pae tino i te reira i te rua. O te akoranga, i kotahi hoatu te whaea tūturu ara. Ko te wahi i nga wa haamana'oraa o te mea e rua kotiro riri mahi ki te aroha. kahore anake hapa take ki te waiho "he whaea tūturu." He utu ki te haere i te reira ki raro i tenei? kia mahara tonu tetahi e e peia koe e kore te mea tika i te whawhai-i roto i-ture, haere ia i runga i te wairua tangata ora, e koutou (me ona) rori.

Whakawhänui porohita pāpori

Well, i runga i te whaea i roto i te ture, me te tamahine i roto i te ture arotahi tatou anake? I muri i te katoa, i roto i te utuafare e tonu te iwi ki reira. Kotahi te tangata e taea te mahi rite he "keu" e ko te whakakōkī ki te whakaoti i te raruraru. Ki te kore e taea e kitea te tane, te wahine, me te whaea i roto i te ture i te reo noa, he reira wa ki te rapu i te tauturu. Ae, e kore i roto i te hohoro, engari ki te rere ki kaimātai hinengaro. He iwi nei wairua he rite ki te whakarato rongoā moana, nui atu pai atu i te korero kāwanatanga-fatuhia me pire. te reira i to outou mama! Well, ko wai atu e taea te matau na pai te raruraru, engari te wahine e poipoia ai atawhai ia i te reira mo koutou! Ko ohie te tūtohutanga: kia te mahi whaea-i roto i-ture me te whaea-i roto i-tahi etahi "mahi nui". Na te tohutohu tohunga. e kore e taea te rua kotiro tiki haere ki te whai ratou tika ki te kōrero. A, no ka e anga ratou he noa (e pa e rua), te raruraru - i reira te tupato. Ripiripia e tetahi puta noa te muka e!

A, no te hinga te faaipoiporaa motu

E matau ana koe, whakarere he mea taata na, ka miharo tangata. Otiia ki te whai wā ki te whai tamariki koe, haere te tane, ko tona whaea, me te noho tonu i roto i to outou oraraa. E kore koe e ruarua e whakakahore koe tou tamaiti he kuia î i te here? Ae, me te o mua i roto i-ture e kore e tukua iho koe. Ka taea e kino koe i te reira ranei mamae, engari ka koropiko nga tamariki. Ko te hunga e fehangahangai mo ha tu'unga meimei tatau, e ai ta riro te kuia te tahi atu. Ko ia hoki te mokopuna rite ki te whakarerea noatia tokomaha o te tamahine-i roto i te mua, matau a kahore e kite i te reira. Just kore e whakarite i runga i te wahine rawakore. He wā i reira te tamata i te hoa i whakarerea ki kupu i te whanaunga o mua ki tona kore. taea tetahi mea e ora ake, engari faaere ratou tamariki i tetahi atu tangata te here - te mea ohie. Otiia he aha te mahi i te reira?

āhuatanga uaua

Aua'e, te rua i roto i-ture e matara atu ana i ia te wahine. Na nga raruraru kihai i ratou nui tukua. Ahakoa te tuatahi "te mahuetanga puru" me ka whai ki te ngana ki te kia tika atu ki te hanga i te whanaungatanga, ohie ki tenei āwangawanga ranei. Ko reira he kōwhiringa, no ka timata te i roto i-ture ki te komekome a ratou ano, totohe, tona tama, mo te tauira, he mātao, e ko "te tane pai." Ko ki tenei "taonga" tamahine mahi? E heke tūtohutanga i hanga ki te kupu "kahore." Kia ratou ki a ratou ano "whawhai", pea e pokaia ratou, a kia kore e matakitaki ana sitcoms anake, engari arahi ano hoki he ora kaha! Kia wahine ngahau. Tō whāinga matua, ko te kore ki te tiki wāhi. e kore te mea he rauhanga "otereti" tenei. I te anga ke. Ko te whanonga whakaaro nui tenei: hoatu ki etahi kia rite te hunga ratou.

Na ko wai te mea tenei whaea i roto i te ture?

A, no te tirohia i te tirohanga o te whaea wahine marena hou, ko te tamahine o tana tane te whaea. Ko, etahi whanaunga kore tata rawa. Ko reira tauākī kia hape e hanga he rota o nga matenga nui, me te iti. No, e te tika ki te taamuraa utuafare. Anake e kore e te huru hanga i te raupapatanga o te whānau, me te rite. A ko reira i te tirohanga o tetahi ki tetahi tei runga i te au maite o te natura. He nui tenei. Te paraparau nei tatou e pā ana ki te mea nohinohi - rite titiro ia, he aha ki te mea, me te pera i runga i. A i roto i te meka, e korero tatou e pā ana ki ahua katoa, e ngā te taitamariki e kore anake, me te whakatupuranga kaumatua, engari ano tamariki me ētahi atu whanaunga. Ko te kōpuku i waenganui i te tamahine, me te whaea e here ana i runga i te kino, e taea whakapōrearea i te oraraa o te iwi maha, ahakoa - nui taonga. He mea tika ki te mahara e tetahi o te "kaitiaki o te kanga." Heoi, tupu te reira e rua he wahine whakaaro nui rawa, Waimarie hoki ratou tangata!

Ko te hononga i waenga i te whaea-me te tamahine - he mea i ahuareka ai, engari e kore e rite ki te nui kia rite kore ki te matau tenei. Ki te fehangahangai koe mauahara haa ki, he pai ke ki te ngangau, i ki te kitea i roto i taua i roto i nga hinengaro o te mau melo o te utuafare. I te tahi taime taua "rongoā ahotea" he nui, pai atu i te patuki me te whakatipu tino. He nui atu "ao" maia i roto i tenei hononga e hāngai ana i runga i te matakana me te huna kerēme. Ka rite ki te tautohe whakamutunga i te oaoa o koutou tamariki tei runga i te aratau kua e kua puta hohoro ka e whanau ranei. He ko atu nui atu i to ratou iho "puru hipi" whakapehapeha ratou oaoa?