Tohu o te pūhuruhurutanga o roto tamariki. Āhuatanga o te taiohitanga

tau Transition i roto i te mau tamaroa - ko te wa uaua o te raruraru tenei. A hoki ngā tamariki e kore anake engari ano mo ratou matua. He rerekē tohu o te pūhuruhurutanga o roto tamariki, i ia he ona ake. Tino maha i roto i ngā pakeke i tēnei wā ki te taiohi ngaro auhoaraa me te whakapā. Me mau metua ki pinepine kōrero ki a ratou, ia ratou e kia mahue i roto i runga i tetahi o nga taime tino nui i roto i te aupururaa i te tamaiti. Ki te kore e huri ngā pakeke ki te tamaiti i roto i te wā tino nui hoki ia, ka ngá he taiohi taka ki te kamupene kino, e kia hua i roto i te ma'unimā ki waipiro, taero, me ētahi atu hopearaa kino.

āhuatanga whānui o te taiohitanga me tūtohutanga ki ngā mātua

Me e taea ki te rongo ki tona tamaiti tupu-ake, ana raruraru aumauiui, te āwhina ora ia i te mau fifi morare matou. Ki te matau ana ngā mātua e he tika ratou, e ti'a ia tatou whakamārama marie ki te mea i tana hape tō tamaiti. tamata hoki ki te hoatu tautohetohe fakaloto'i e hāngai ana i runga i ngā meka. Na ka whakapono te tamaiti ratou mea i aroha. Ki te i te mau metua no te faahapa tana tama, ka hiahia koe ki te arahi i te tautohe nui i matau ia. pēhanga Hoatu i runga i te taiohi e kore e taea e pai ki te ui tika mo te awhina, na hohoro ia haere i runga i tuuraa ra pakeke. Whakapae me te whakaitinga nui pā te konä o te tamaiti, na e kore e taea e matou te mahi i taua.

Whakatauritea koutou taiohi, me te kore e utu i te reira ona hoa. I muri i te katoa, ia, tuatahi o te katoa, tuakiri, individuality, a te kore titauhia ki kia rite tahi atu tamariki. A, no te kōrero ngā mātua ki to ratou tamaiti, ki te mahi i te reira i roto i te reo hoa, ka e whakawhirinaki ia ratou rawa. Kia mana taiohi aha Ko te ahei ia. Na e hoatu e koe tou tamaiti o motuhake, i te mea na nui ki a ia. Heoi, ki te kite koe i tetahi huringa i roto i te whanonga o te tamaiti (hei tauira, ka takarepa tona tauhohenga ki etahi mea, e kore ia e hiahia ana ki te titiro a koutou i roto i te kanohi, me ētahi atu), he mea e tika ana ki te whakaaro e pā ana ki te mea te tino nui te āhuatanga rite. Ko reira taea e reira ko te hiahia ki te kōrero ki te narcologist. Ko reira i roto i te hiahia ratou taiohi ki te tamata forbidden katoa, kahore whakaaro e pā ana ki te mau hopearaa. A, kia rite ki matau koutou, te tiki whakamahia ki te tarukino rawa hohoro, engari maka ma'unimā kahore āwhina ngaio ko ngā taea.

Me te Matua o te heke mai te tangata

A, no te haamata pūhuruhurutanga, ki te tamaiti ki a ia kia matua he papa. Ki tupu te taiohi he mema tika o te hapori, me ia kia rite ki te nui e taea ki te kōrero ki te popa. Te taua, i roto i te tahuri, te here i ki whakatakotoria he tauira ki tana tama. I roto i te taiohitanga, ko te tino nui hoki te tamaiti, ko te kōrero. Ki te kore te rite manuïa te taiohi ki tona hononga papa, ka puta te ahotea hinengaro i roto i te tamaiti, fakaaoao hano, ka tamata ia ki te tauhiuhi atu i runga i te whaea ranei te tahi atu melo o te utuafare.

Na reira, ko te mea e tika ana ki te ngana ki te papa ki te tama, ko reira ngā ki te kōrero ki a ia. I tenei tau, ko te me te tamaiti he āhua noho hauora. Ki te mahi i tenei, whakarite mahi hākinakina hoki ia, a ka whai i te kai (me te mea taurite). Na ka matau te tamaiti e te mea kahore he wahi mo taero, me te waipiro ki te āhua noho taua.

I roto i ētahi wā, kia waiho he taiohi whārua kite, me te inattention. Ako i tenei tau kei te nuinga o parea reira ki te wahi whakamutunga. Ngā kaimātai hinengaro mea e whakaaro i roto i ngā taiohi riro ake whakawhanakehia, engari e kore e ratou i roto i te whakamahi tika ki te meka e hoki atu nui ratou i te feohi'a ki hoa atu ki ngā kaiako.

mau fifi

Ko te raruraru matua o te tino:

• whakapono taiohi e takahia ana tika, na whakahokia mai ia ratou e tika ana ki tautohetohe me kākā ki ngā mātua;
• te mea te reira ki te tamaiti e te tukinotia ia te whana. Ka rite ki te hua, kei te ngana ia ki te whakamatau i te mea kore iti, a taea kōmaka mea i roto i ia;
• aroha hoki ia inaianei i roto i te wahi tuatahi, a kahore e hiahia ana ia te mau metua i te katoa (kia mea i te nuinga o ngā taiohi);
• whakaaro suicidal tino maha mai mahara ki taiohi. Na reira, Me mātua ki te mahi i nga mea katoa ki te meinga e ratou tamaiti wawe tonu maka te whakaaro i roto i o toku matenga.

He aha te mea te taiohitanga?

Mama me papa mahara pehea te mea ki te kia tata i unu ki a ratou e ratou ringa iti ratou tama, ka puaki te mangai goalless, engari i tenei ra kua riro te reira tata te tangata tupu. He aha te mea te whakawhiti hongofulu tau? Ko te wā tenei ina tīmata te tinana ki te huri i tino tinana me psychologically.

Ko te wa ki te tae paari i roto i te mau tamaroa tenei, ahakoa he tamariki tonu ratou. tīmata Age pakeketanga i tau 10, engari mutu ia i roto i ara rerekē, rite ki te tikanga, e pā ana ki 15-17 tau.

tohu whaiaroaro

Kia titiro a i ngā āhuatanga fakasekisualé o pūhuruhurutanga i roto i te mau tamaroa:

• tahuri reo angiangi ki te taratara, tino, no te mea i reira he maha hormones tane.
• Nui haere whekau fakasekisualé.
• riro te reira i atu huruhuru i runga i te tinana katoa, me te rite i runga i te mata (pahau, me te ngutu).
• Uaua piki.
• riro whānui pokohiwi.
• I te po, maha māhorahora ejaculation;
• Pimples me blackheads puta i roto i te hoki me te ki runga ki te mata. Neke atu i te wa, ka ngaro ratou i a ratou ano. Ahakoa tūtohu tākuta ki te hamani ratou e kore ki te waiho tohu i roto i te heke mai.

Ko te whanaketanga fakasekisualé kitea o tamariki. I roto i te wā taua o te wā, he iti te taiohi i muri mai ranei, kia tīmata i roto i te hononga fakasekisualé tuatahi. Na reira, hoki tamaiti-tau 11-tau e hiahia ki te whakamārama he aha te whakawhānau me pehea ki te whakamahi i ratou.

Ko te whanonga o te taiohi, me te te huru e taui tino. He maha ngā kaimātai hinengaro e whakapono e te āhuatanga o te taiohitanga, ko te tino matatini. Ko etahi tohunga tautohe te ritenga. I roto i to ratou whakaaro, ki te te tamaiti ki te tikanga rite tūmanakohia, ki te hei tona hoa, a ka reira kei roto i te tikanga ngāwari katoa. A, ki te timata ngā mātua ki te, ēngari atu tou taiohi, na ko ia i taea te tamaiti talangofua me atawhai hei pakeke, me te ware. Tohea ki ngā pakeke hei te kitea hoki ia. Kua tāutuhia Scientists tohu noa o te pūhuruhurutanga o roto tamariki, engari tamariki katoa kei te haere i runga i takitahi. I roto i te tahi mau mua, ētahi nui i muri. whanaketanga fakasekisualé o tamariki e taea te puta rite he rawa ata, a rawa tere, e pa ana i te huru. kia i roto i tetahi take e mataara mau metua, me mahi i runga i te āhuatanga tipu.

tohu hinengaro

He aha e nga tohu hinengaro o te pūhuruhurutanga i roto i te mau tamaroa? Ko ētahi o ēnei te whai ake:

• Kei Tupú i roto i ngā āhuatanga papā, ki whakaaro ratou oraraa, ratou e taea e kore waho te tutu ano.
• Mauiui huru ki tetahi āhuatanga, ite ratou e whai ratou kahore hoa, a ka karapotia e ratou hoariri (tae atu i te mau metua).
• Taiohi haafaufaa ore kiritau-, me i tenei hei ratou psychologically taea ki te ora.
• Ki te whakaaro o ngā pakeke i roto i tenei ao e kore e whakaaro i te katoa, engari ka rongo te hoa ki te pai.
• Tino tairongo ki te faaino, puta fakaaoao, i nei riro te reira kino katoa a tawhio noa.
• Ako anake i ratou hape.
• E kore e wehi o te whakamomori, e kore e matau ki te mamae i roto i ana kupu ake e pā ana ki te whai wāhi ki te kawe i te mutunga i te utuafare.
• Riri i to ratou mau metua, ki te whakahaere ratou ratou.
• Maka atu o koutou tōraro katoa i runga i ētahi atu, kaki pakeke. I tua atu, i te whawhai ki ngā pakeke, e kore he kupu anake maha tamariki, engari ano hoki ki te whakamahi o te kaha tinana.
• e hiahia ana ratou aroha, māramatanga me te whakarongo o ngā mātua. I roto i te hiahia kia päpähotia o āwhina me te tautoko i te pae morare.

Kaunihera

e tango ia tamaiti ona ake āhuatanga, me e rua whaiaroaro, me te hinengaro. Engari me mahara tatou e he tamariki tonu ratou. Age 12-14 tau whakaaro ko te tino nui, me te raruraru, rite nga takatu kore ki te whakarongo ki tetahi whakaaro. Huri noa i te tau o 17, ata ratou ki raro, ka timata ki te kite i tona faufaa i roto i te ora. Ki te kore e whai nui aro, te aroha, te tiaki i te tama, ka e ia i te reira rawa fakamamahi. ai ia puta māia e he tau'a ki te katoa ia. Na reira, i te mau metua i te titauraa ki te tikanga ki te tamaiti kia kia kore i taea e ratou te tamaiti e ruarua ratou aroha.

te tauturu o whaea

Ka taea te karohia raruraru pūhuruhurutanga, a ki te āwhina i to ratou tamaiti i roto i tenei mama te nuinga ki te hei, a tawhio noa ia ia ki te aroha, me te tiaki. Matua, ka rite ki te tikanga, e kore e coddle te tamaiti. Na reira, ko te tamaiti ko te taiohi e kore e ite tona aroha me te here. tauturu mama ratou aroha me te tautoko mo tana tama, no te mea ko ia inaianei nui ki te ite e hiahiatia ana. Tenei he aha e hiahia ana ngā mātua ki te hei ki tou taiohitanga tamaiti. Ki a ia, o te akoranga, kia hoa, engari kaua e wehi ki te kia tino ki te tika. E kore e taea e koe te whai i te tamaiti, e mea ratou, "noho ahau ki raro, i runga i te kaki."

Ki te he raruraru hongofulu, e whakaaro reira nui, kia kia tairongo, me te māramatanga nga mātua. Kata i kore e taea e to ratou mau fifi, me mau mana'o kia, rite taea arahi ai ki te whanaketanga o complexes. Kia mōhio e ka whakaahua i te tohunga nga āhuatanga o hinengaro whanaketanga me te tinana o te taiohi, e kōrero ratou ki te aronga whānui. Na reira, Me ki te tango i ki pūkete te individuality me huru o te ingoa o to ratou tamaiti mau metua.

mutunga

Na e matau ana koutou ki nga āhuatanga o ngā taiohi, me te aha taui puta ki a ratou i roto i te wā whakawhitinga. Kia tahuri ki a koutou tamariki, karapotia ratou ki te aroha me te tiaki me te whakaute i roto i ratou huru taata.