Whanaungatanga i roto i te utuafare: tohutohu hinengaro hoki te pai-oranga i roto i te whare

Family - Ko tenei te wahi mo te hanganga o te tangata, a ka aroha hunga, he mea nui kia kore e taea e tetahi e. Na reira, te tākaro he nui, he wāhi tuatahi i roto i te whanaketanga hinengaro, me te pai-oranga o ia o ona mema o te mau auraa utuafare.

Ngā kaimātai hinengaro herenga wehe hapu ki houkura, me te rawakore, te huri i tonu ratou: he ona ake raruraru te utuafare ia. Hei whakaiti i te raruraru ki te iti, ki te huri i mea i roto i toku whare, e hiahiatia ana timatanga mōhiotanga taketake e pā ana ki te hinengaro o te whānau, me te hiahia ki te waihanga i tētahi taiao pai i roto i nei e taea ki te whakawhanake i roto i te ara āhua etahi kahore raweketia me tino disorders, complexes, mana'o hape no ni'ai te ao e te katoa, e pā ana ki a ratou ano, me ētahi atu.

I roto i te tikanga ki te whakatutuki i ēnei whāinga pai, a mo te whakaaro ki o ratou, ako ki te hanga i te whanaungatanga i roto i te utuafare. Ahakoa kei upoko o te whānau ki a koutou, te rangatira matua o te whare te tamaiti (ara, ki te he koe i runga i te 20) ranei, koutou e kore e hiahia ana ki te ako e pā ana te kuware ture o kōrero i roto i te utuafare.

1. Kaua e huna tou kanohi ki te anga mālohi, hoatu tahi i te tahi iho. A, ki te kahore e taea tenei (i reira e ware take hapori mōrearea, hei tauira, i roto i te take o te tane waipiro), whakaiti i kōrero ki te mema o te whānau ki te iti.
2. Ako ki te whiriwhiri. Puta ohorere i te raruraru, hoatu tatou he hoa mārama, tamaiti, matua, e rite ki te aparau i te ara o te otinga, ki te tae te ngāwari ratou. Na whakaatu whakaute mo tahi i te tahi, e te mea faufaa no te te whanaungatanga noa utuafare.
3. A faaitoito i te āwhina tahi, aroha, te hiahia ki te pupuri i te hoa tahi i roto i ara katoa taea (e mohio ana koutou pai e pai aha, he aha koe e taea te mahi mo ia - e kore e tenei mōhiohio whakamahi). He mea nui rawa ki te mau i tenei tikanga i roto i te tikanga ki te hanga i te whanaungatanga o ngā tamariki i roto i te utuafare. Ki te whai te maha o ratou koutou, hoatu aronga i runga i te meka i teina, me te tuahine (teina), i te mea matenui me tata to ratou kahore tetahi, me te kore e ratou. A tapiti faahou tenei te wa katoa, he tino rauangi ki nga kupu matua 'tamariki. Neke atu i te nga tau, ka kite koutou i taunakitanga o tenei, o koutou tautooraa me whakarongo e kore e haere i roto i te noa.
4. Me pēhea e noho koutou wa watea, i te ara, he mea tino nui. Wehe? Te pai, engari me waiho e koe te tahi mea i roto i te noa, ano he hoa faaipoipo, me ngā mātua ki te tamariki. Te hīkoi i roto i te papa rēhia, he Pizzeria, toa, e haere ana - enei mea nui katoa iti e whakakotahi koutou rite e kore i mua.
5. He mea nui hoki ki te whai iho te utuafare. Ki te kore, te reira te wā ki te haere mai ki a ratou ake. whakakotahi Ngā kōrero tatou, whakakaha i te taatiraa i te tane me te wahine, me te hononga ki te tamariki (rawa nui, me te akiaki i te mehua taua i roto i te take o taiohi). Lué ki nga tīpuna, ake hararei, he tunu koutou rihi tino, whakapaipai rakau Kirihimete tahi - e taea e te reira tetahi mea. Ki te whakaaro e te katoa te iho anake. e kore e haapa'oi ki, he reira wa ki te whakaaro o ētahi atu.
6. hāngai ana ngā hononga Family e te nuinga i runga i te tūranga me ngā kawenga tohaina i roto ia koutou. Tūnga i roto i to outou utuafare tāuta kē. Papa - pakia te ranei rangatira wairua. Mama - he housewife pakihi ranei te wahine. Otiia i roto i te take o nga mau ohipa o katoa te atu uaua. me mahi katoa i runga i te whakamarie. Kia ka whakaahua, whakaae nei he kawenga hoki te mea, a ka faaere koe te whānau te take tino noa mō ngā tautohetohe.
7. Kia mau ki te aroha i roto i whanaunga ki te hoa faaipoipo (wahine), me ngā tamariki. e kore e ngaro te reira, e runga i tenei take e kore i korero. Ki te te whānau he whakaute, māramatanga me te taiva ore, e pai me te aroha. tikanga o tēnei e kore e koutou here whati i te mau huru tüao, a tae noa raru. He tahi koe me te whai koutou i te kaha. Ko reira utu ki te whakarongo ki tahi i te tahi! Kaua rawa e wareware ki te kitea te wā ki te kōrero ki tō pēpi, me te hoa, rawa me aku mātua (e hiahia ana ratou ano tatou, kia rite ki te hunga tatou i roto i a ratou, e kore mea te nui, kua haere mai te whanau o to tatou wa).

rapua e mau auraa utuafare koutou whai wāhi tamau, noa'tu te aha tūranga e koutou i roto i kore te nohoia. Kaua e tango i tetahi ki tetahi mo homai me rite tahi mea mure ore. Kia whakaae taua huru ki toku utuafare tīmata ki te hu'ahu'a roa'tu. A feruri e pā ana ki te aha rārangi tenei e taea e koe te mahi mo to outou utuafare.