Aroha faaipoipo: me pehea ki te mahi ki a reira, a ko reira utu?

waiata ngāwari e te takatu a tawhio noa te rota, engari i reira he aroha anake hoki kotahi, ki te tangata whai hoa, kāore, ko te whakaahuatanga tūturu o te āhuatanga ora o ngā kōtiro me te wahine maha. "Aroha ahau faaipoipo ..." I roto i te ngutu o te tangata tangi te reira Aue, me te kanga, i ētahi atu, i roto i te rerekē, whakatuma a taua whanaungatanga. He aha e whakatika te āhuatanga taua? Na te atu ahu ratou ki te mutunga ake? Next - whakaaro huritao i runga i tenei kaupapa.

Ki te tino mea e te i roto i te aroha ki nga tangata whai hoa ia he angamaheni mo tetahi etahi momo o te wahine e kore e taea e. Ka taea e tupu te reira i ki te ākonga nei kahore e mohio te ora, me te whakaaro nui wheako ora kaipakihi ngaua. Taka ki roto ki te "äwhiowhio" me te wahine e te mea ki te kia aroha, me te hunga e i roto i te ora kāore romance. Anake konei nga mana'o, huru aau, me, tino maha, he tino rite te mamae.

Na tīmata te whakahaere ki te hoa, ngā mātua, ranei ara kaimātai hinengaro, te wahi i teie nei, a ka nga whakarongo: ". Aroha ahau he tangata whai hoa" Te āhua e te wahine ui mo tohutohu me te rapu awhina, no te mea i roto i te nuinga o te wā ko reira mārama e hiahia tika tenei mana'o ki te pehea o! Otiia, ki te whakaae koe ki a koe afaro, pea, e kore he tino e minaminatia etahi. E rave rahi te iwi e kore e taea e noa e ora, kahore mana'o aroha me te mamae. Na, ka rite ki whakaaturanga mahi, tika te whai wāhi ki te mea "aroha ana ahau ki te tangata whai hoa," mo te tahi atu kotiro taitamariki ko te pepeé! Ko te he whai wāhi ki te titiro mo te aroha, me te amuamu e pā ana ki to ratou wahi uaua, kihai nei i i tukua i te "haurua" Ka tutataki rua i mua!

Ko reira te mea he āhuatanga i reira te meka e kaki whakaatu: "aroha ahau whai hoa" - e kore e taea te whakaaro. Hei tauira, ka marena te wahine te (ranei wā roa-a mahi hoki i te hononga). Ko reira ara uaua! Kua i katoa ki te mau i te tino. A ko te tahi mau taime e wehingia ana fakamamahi.

A, ahakoa he mea utu ki te tumanako mo te tahi mea? I roto i te ora e taea tetahi mea tupu. A, pea, aroha iwi ki pai ake anō, ara te take taketake o te mamae whakarerea hoa o mua. Otiia maha marenatia tangata, te haapapū tona rangatira i roto i to ratou mau mana'o wera, e kore i roto i te hohoro ki te waiho tana wahine. A ka taea e muri i te reira no te tau! He aha? He hāneanea me te mōhio ia! Na te wahine i roto i te aroha anake tonu e tonu ki te faaite wheako ki te hunga i aroha i runga i te kaupapa "aroha ahau faaipoipo". A tatari ...

Ahakoa, ki te maha pai te tangata ki te haere i runga i te wiki ki tona whaea i runga i panekeke, a i runga i te wiki i roto i te hohoro ki te haere ki tana wahine ki te hokomaha, ka pea e kore e mea kino i roto i to ratou utuafare? Tenei māramatanga whai o te āhuatanga e taea te tahi mau taime te āwhina ki te whakaaro i te pā ana ki te ahanoa o te aroha. Pea ko ia e kore e aroha pouri me te ngakau mamae, engari noa te momo e he tonu i roto i te rapu o te kanorau? Na he aha ururua wa i runga i te reira?

A, no te titiro koutou i te hunga e e tiwerawera (whakapehapeha ranei) ta ia: "aroha ahau faaipoipo" - whakaaro e pā ana ki, ki taua āhuatanga rite iti rite taea. Ko e mo'oni, ki te whakaoti ia ratou painlessly ngā taea! A ki te tohutohu hoatu - he mahi mihikore! Ko te tohutohu anake pono ka e kia hāngai - e kore e tamata ki te faarahi roa i te aroha, me te taringa turi ki te whakaaro o whanaunga.