Civil Faaipoiporaa: maona, Na Cons

I teie mahana, i roto i to tatou whenua e kua riro momo rawa noa o te tahi-oraraa o te tangata, me te wahine i te faaipoiporaa tivira, e ko te ahua o te ora tahi, pāmu, fakatupú, me ētahi atu, e kore e e whakapae i te rēhita ture o whanaunga tangata faaipoipo. Mō te take he aha ka rongonui faaipoiporaa tivira, e nehenehe tatou e kōrero mo te wa roa - te reira te mate o te faaipoiporaa tuku iho, i whakapumautia e te kāwanatanga rite tetahi o nga āhuatanga ture matua o oraraa tangata, tona faufaa mua i roto i te hinengaro o tangata, me te utu tika tiketike o te tukanga iho, a rawa maha te hiahia o te iwi kia herea e tetahi herenga. Oia mau, te take he aha whiriwhiri iwi faaipoiporaa tivira te rota, engari tamata ki matau te mea hanga i te AtAKi faaipoiporaa tivira, me ngā raruraru o te melo tata'itahi o te uniana taua. I roto i te faaipoiporaa tivira piri maha, engari kahore iti iho i te hoariri tino te kahui ka, na ki te matau he aha e nga huapai me ngā huakore o e tango te melo tata'itahi he tino nui e kore ki te hanga hape i te utuafare i rawe ki.

maha ngā nga painga o faaipoiporaa tivira te whai wāhi ki te ako tahi i te tahi pai, pera ki te mea "kia whakamahia ki" te iwi e haere mai ana ki reira. Ko ia tapao e maha he pea taua e te āwhina ki te mahino ratou, ka mārama me pēhea te whakamarie e fakataha ki te hoa whiriwhiri reira, engari i roto i tenei take, kia ara ake i te āhuatanga, ina e tika te raruraru iti e tika whakatika whakatau i te wāhi o te tirohanga o te whanaungatanga tuku iho utuafare, me te rere te reira anake te hua - e mawehe.

Ko te painga tuarua - ki te whakaora moni. Ka rite ki kia tangi reira corny, engari nui te moni i teie mahana i te tūranga nui i roto i te mau tuhaa atoa o te ora, me te whānau he kahore okotahi. Ko e mo'oni, titau tukanga faaipoiporaa tuku iho he whakapaunga tika nui, he maha te taumahatanga o te tomo ki te rahi o nei te marena o te iwi, ina koa te taitamariki. I tua atu i reira he kahore he take ki te whakapau moni ki runga i te marena, iwi e noho ana i roto i cohabiting whanaungatanga, maha kīia ki rite ona painga i roto i te āhuatanga rauemi o te whai wāhi ki te "tinihanga" ki te āhua. Hei tauira, riro maha wahine painga tikanga mo whaea kotahi, ahakoa to ratou he nehenehe rawa, ka aroha, ahakoa "katoatia" tane.

Whakamātauria, tino taea kitea e koe te tahi atu āhuatanga pai o te kore o "tiwhikete faaipoiporaa", engari ka arotahi ki runga i te whakamārama poto o te mea raruraru o faaipoiporaa tivira maha riro he tutukitanga ki te whakatamarikitanga o te whakatau i runga i te urunga ki te hononga taua:

- Legal whanaunga paruru me ngā āhuatanga lalahi o coexistence;

- Ko te kore o te tikanga tonu o te kawenga i roto i hoa mo ia atu, me hoki tahi nga tamariki;

- ngā āhuatanga matatika, me te morare, maha whakakitea e tika ana ki te kore o te haamauraa mōhiohio o te uniana te faaipoiporaa.

- Ko te kore o te ki tonu te māramatanga o te mea ki te whānau i roto i ngā tamariki whanau ki ngā mātua e kore e nei whakaaro e tika ana te reira here i te kono.

O te akoranga, i roto i te noa'tu o te runga ake, whakatau tangata ia hoki ia pehea ia hanga i tona ora. Ko te mea anake te mea e hiahia ana ahau ki te mea i tenei ko te take e kia waiho tetahi whakatau he rua tahi, āta me aau. kia Tetahi hononga whakamarie i te vakai hinengaro, me ki rave i te reira e taea ki te āwhina i engari te aroha me te mahara, me te aroaro o te kati "te mate" i roto i te uruwhenua e kore e tākaro i te taua tūranga nui rawa. Anake te iwi ko wai e taea e mo'oni mauruuru me aroha e taea ki te postorit whānau kaha, noa'tu te poto e kore e huaina a reira ratou mea aroha.