Mau fâ roaahia'tu, ranei he aha nga tangata huri wahine

Ko te kaupapa o te taiata tane na hāngai tonu, e whakapono mau anake te kotiro tino kuware i roto i te Infallibility o tona aroha. O te akoranga, e hiahia ana ahau ki te whakapono i roto i te mata pai, mamae, me te pouri i te tinihanga i runga i te hunga e okioki katoa. maha tamata Women ki matau he aha te huri i te tangata a ratou wahine? Otira ake maha te mahi reira i muri i te mau ohipa kino.

E ai ki ngā kaimātai hinengaro, he ārai i te huringa kahore utuafare. Ko tino te wahine katoa tūmanako e kore tenei kino e pā koe.

Na he aha e huri i te tangata a ratou wahine? Ko te whakahoki ta'e ki tenei pātai he kahore. Ka taea e te take e maha, engari ko te wahi tuatahi - ponana ta'oto. Ko te tangata tutaki tika te wahine i roto i te pā ana ki ona hiahia o nāianei.

Rare Tinihanga e waho te awhina o tana wahine, i taea e koe mea e, "utaina tana wahine te pu -. Te pere tane" Te whakatū ake i roto i te mara o te ora utuafare, whakarite ora, hoatu whanau ki tamariki, he kore maha kia tairongo, me te tahuri ki te hoa o te tangata wahine. He mātu'aki mahu'inga te tangata ki te ite nui, e tika ana, me te faahiahia. Hei faitotonu, tatou maha kahore e mauruuru aha to tatou. e kore e tokomaha nga wahine mohio pehea, a e kore e hiahia ana ki te ako ki te kia tukua, me te toi i roto i te moenga. I roto i ngā take pēnei, tinihanga te tane o - e kore ko te take ko te hopearaa tenei.

titau Tohunga e te tangata i te hunga kua marenatia katoa i hiahiatia e ia, e kore te huri i tō hoa. Ko he reira tetahi hapu e he kotahi rau ōrau makona ki to ratou hononga? Ko te take pai roaahia'tu?

Hoki he i takoto inoino hohonu me hape. Katoa matou maha whakahihi he, me te mea te mea e kore e waiho, kahore hoki e mohio he aha te taea te tūmanakohia o tatou pānga kino. Urupare ki te pātai "He aha e tangata taui i to ratou wahine?" Kahore ngāwari. raruraru "i runga i te mata" e kore te mea tonu te take. Ahakoa mau utuafare houkura i roto i nei i reira ko te aroha me te matauranga, fehangahangai ki tenei takeo.

mahi hinengaro tinihanga kia pūkenga e ki matau i te take pono kei te anake e kaimātai hinengaro tino tohu.

Ko te take e pana te tangata ki roto ki te ringa o tetahi wahine, he rota. hiahia te tangata ki te wheako mana'o whaiāipo hou, te tangata hiahia he "okiokinga" i to ratou hawhe pai. Nuinga o ngā wā, he tangata titiro i te taha o te mea e kore ia e whai i roto i tona ora mua. Ko te mārama tenei, no te mea e tatou katoa i roto i te rapu o te mea e kore tatou e e whai nui te ora.

e kore e huringa kōpeka ohorere ranei tupu. Tino uaua, kia rite ki kaimātai hinengaro, ki te huri i matapōkeretia. I mua i peke koe ki te wanawana i o riri, ara ahakoa whakaata te tangata mo te kau i runga i te mau hopearaa taea, ahakoa te mea i ahatia te wahine e manaaki ana tona ora whakamarie. Haratau mo te nuinga o ratou he nui atu nui atu i te mau mana'o.

Na he aha e tinihanga nga tangata o ratou wahine? I roto i te nuinga o te wā, no te mea o te mau fifi i roto i te utuafare, i roto i te hononga ki tona wahine. I tua atu, he ratou rawa wehi o te anake (nui ake atu i te wahine).

Torohaki mō te he i taea te mahi rite te ora kati, i runga i te wā riro nei kua piki uaua ki te mau. Ko reira pakeke ki te kia tukinotia ki te here weriweri, me te ki wahine ngangare ta'engata wenewene i roto i curlers, ki kanohi hua i runga i tona mata me te paraharaha i roto i te ringa. Neke atu i te wā, tīmata te tangata ki te kite i tana wahine i roto i tenei ara, kia rite ki te puna o kare kino. A i tenei momeniti reira ko he "patupaiarehe", e fafau ki te kawe te oaoa anake me te pai i tetahi wa o te ra, ko reira tino e tau'a nei.

Me pēhea te ki te hopu i te tane no te he i? Me pēhea e mohio ana ahau ki ko koutou hoa pono?

Kite ki te huri koe i tō tino, e kore te mea te reira na uaua. Ko te pātai, ko te ahakoa kahore ranei e hiahia ana koe ki te mohio ki ta koutou e mea ai ki tenei kitea? Aha ki te mahi i muri i kitea e koe i roto i pā ana ki te tinihanga o te aroha tetahi, ka korero ki a koutou anake o koutou ngakau. Ko te take he aha i pera tana tahu, pea he miriona. A kia whai whakaaro koutou ki ta i mea ai koe mo kake tau kawenata me mingo. He aha te mea koutou mahi, kupu e taea take pana ranei, tutakina mai koutou to koutou tangata?