Eaha te auraa ki oaoa? Whakaaro huritao i runga i te kaupapa tonu.

Eaha te auraa ki hei te tangata oaoa? e kore e taea te mahi i tetahi hiahia hararei i waho te kupu "te oaoa". e hiahia ana matou katoa ki te oaoa, na e hiahia ana te tahi atu mau taata i te mea ano. I te iti rawa kotahi i roto i te ora o tetahi tangata e haere ana whakaaro huritao i runga i te kaupapa o te oaoa. E pai te mōhio e te katoa ko tana ake matou.

Eaha te auraa ki kia hari mo te kuao tamaiti? Maroke, mahana, reka, haumaru - moe pai, ataata toku whaea, tupu. kia mahue te reira anake, ki te ite i te manukanuka iti - kua oaoa te.

Eaha te auraa ki kia hari mo te kaiauroro tuatahi? Ataahua pukatuhi kōpaki, hoa, hoa, kēmu me tākaro. Na he mōrihana i roto i te mau metua e arohaina, e mahi nga hiahia.

Eaha te auraa ki kia hari mo te taiohi? kakahu huatau, pretty kaumeá, subculture takatāpui. A e pā ana ki te rauemi tautoko "tupuna" e kore e wareware.

Eaha te auraa ki kia hari hoki te tamaiti ora i roto i te whare pani? kite ahau i te reira i nga ra mau toku whaea ia. tiaki tamaiti inu wā e toku whaea arata'i ki te whare o te tangata ke. Ko te mea matua - ki te hei ki tana mama kotahi, e noho ana i roto i te utuafare, engari e kore e ki te tamariki rawakore taua.

Na ka tatou tupu ake, hei pakeke. To tatou mau hinaaro huri. Na katoa o te ora ki te fakatapui ki te hopu i te oaoa rangitahi kau: ki te hoko i tētahi tauira hou motokā, haere ki te moana, ki te hanga koe i te hae o hoa ranei. Te tangata kotahi hiahia - noa ki te ora i roto i tenei hapori uaua. I roto i te whānui, katoa kua tona oaoa - kia rite ki tona hiahia.

He tokomaha e matau nei hiahia o te Maslow tara. I te raro - hiahia whaiaroaro, e ngā matewai, matekai, hiahia fakasekisualé, me ētahi atu. Na, moata ki te tihi, i reira he hiahia haumaru, no me te aroha, mo te faatura. Ahakoa teitei - hinengaro ngā hiahia, rerehua. Te karauna te tara - te hiahia mō te whaiaro-matauranga, whaiaro iteraa-i roto i te hapori. I ia taahiraa mana'o hari ki te he makona tona hiahia he tangata.

Ko te aha Maslow tāutuhia ngā matea anake hāngai ana ki a ratou ano? Kia aroha mai, i roto i to tatou hapori ngakia tenei ra ko tenei parau tumu o te oaoa. Advertising, kiriata, TV, titau makasini te uara o te pai. E ahau ngahau - tangata hari, kahore ngahau - oaoa. Te reira i katoa mai ki raro ki te whakatutuki i te hiahia, a kahore te rawa, engari kaua nizchayshih. Ko ki makona ratou hiahia - he he oaoa kotahi-wā tenei.

Ki te ui koe marietia, i roto i to tatou aau no te mana'o tatou e te oaoa - ko atu te tahi mea, i te mea mure ore. Ka rite ki te aroha, kua heke hoki te ariā o nei ki te hiahia taumata o raro.

aroha Otiia - te uara Karaitiana. Te Atua - i reira he aroha. Karaiti whakakitea ia e te aroha - ko te whakatau, e kore te mana'o. A e kore e te whakahuatia te reira i roto i te whaiaro-utu, me te ora auaha mo te whakaaro ki o tetahi atu tangata.

Ko nga kupu "e ahau aroha koe" kahore take motuhake ka noho tika te parau kau. E whakaae ki ahau, te hunga kua kite nei i te iti rawa kotahi te koa, me te oaoa o te kotahi i aroha, e kua hanga e koutou ringa. noho ake aua kanohi hari i roto i te mahara, tautoko ratou ia meneti haaparuparuraa o te kore. Te whakatau i te mau hinaaro o etahi atu - he kore tenei oaoa, he he tikanga tonu?

Te manaaki, te aroha, te aroha, ngā ki te aroha kawea e kore te oaoa mauiui anake, engari ano hoki te hunga e te tauturu ia, te aroha.

kia mea koe i te mea ao rawa tenei katoa, e kore hoki ahau. He hononga utuafare, i roto i te hoa faaipoipo? He aha te hari kawea mai e ratou? Ki te te tangata, me te wahine aroha mo te utu o tona kikokiko ake, hiahia, ngā matea, e kore te mea te reira te roa o tenei waimarie pai. I mua ki te whawhai nui tuatahi. Engari ka whakakiia te hononga o te aroha, hanga i runga i te mau parau tumu Karaitiana, tou whare ki te oaoa. Aroha ki to koutou arohaina ranei i aroha ki te kawe i te oaoa, me te koa. A ki te kia hari, ko te ki te aroha.