He aha te ki te "unuhia" i roto i-ture?

I tčnei wā maha amuamu maha nga wahine taumau o te hononga ngāwari ki te whaea o tana tahu, ka mea mooni e-ture "ka". Ano, kei te maha puaki tenei faaiteraa e kore anake e te hunga e kua tika mali a kihai i whai wa ki te urutau ki te mau melo o te utuafare hou, engari ano hoki te hunga e whai kē i te wheako tika tika. Aha ki te mahi i roto i te āhuatanga i reira te whaea tuarua noa e kore e hoatu e plaguing tonu poka ki to ratou whakaaro e tika ana, me te tikanga? Kotahi te mea kei hoki tino: ki te koutou "te tiki i te reira" i roto i-ture, na kia kore e tangohia e koe i te reira i muri, no te mea ki te kore te iti taua wawaotanga i roto i te wa, ka tonu ki anake tiki kino.

mehua whakatūpato

Kia tīmata a ki te meka e ka ora te pakeke marenatia tokorua ki ana matua i roto i te whare e kore ko e ratou, ko reira tata tonu whakaara ake maha fifi. I mua, ka noho te iwi i roto i te mau utuafare nui, i tae e whakatupuranga i te iti rawa e toru, e ara pātai rite, ahakoa, engari mānia e te meka e i roto i taua mau huru, i ora ai te nuinga, a ka kua tenei āhuatanga kua manakohia. Tūnga me te mana o te melo tata'itahi o te utuafare tei runga i tona ranei tona tau. Na e tohe katoa mo te mana motuhake, me te, na reira, e kore e manakohia taua tikanga mo te nuinga o te iwi taitamariki. Ko te aha, i roto i te tikanga e kore e ki "te tiki i te reira" i roto i-ture, i whakaritea tuatahi ki te waiho i te ora motuhake, ahakoa o nga matua i rua te tane me te wahine. Kia waiho te reira tango fare utu, kia ka waiho reira fifi, engari kahore tetahi e whakakorikoria koe koe ki te hanga i to ratou oaoa ta raua moe tahi.

He aha te ki te whaea-ki "tiki"? tohutohu mahi

Ko te tūponotanga e e kia hoa faahiahia, te taua rite te tūponotanga e ka tahuri ratou ki hoariri kawa te tamahine, me te whaea tana tahu a. take Real ka kore e taea te ratou te tiki haere tahi, i roto i te meka, torutoru rawa, a ki te puta ratou, e pā ana ranei hauā hinengaro, ki te haere taiawhio rerekē i runga i te tama ranei. taea a kia hinga atu te wā katoa. Ki te koe "tiki" i roto i-ture, ki te tuatahi o te katoa e hiahia ana tatou ki te tamata kawe reira ki te kōrero hāngai. Whakamātauria ki te hoatu koe i roto i tona wahi. E kore e pera ngāwari ki te tango i te whaea, a ka kia haere o tona tamaiti, i roto i nei kua ora katoa kua haumi. Na kia marie whakamārama koutou ki a ia e aroha koutou tana tama, kaua e iti iho i te ia. Whakamātauria ki te whakarongo marie ki a ia tohutohu me tohutohu, kia waiho reira ahuareka, engari i te mahi wa taua rite kite koutou pai. I te tahi taime te take o te raruraru i roto i-ture riro tona hae. I roto i tenei take, ka mohio te tamahine a te mharahara e "Okrut" a ka mau tana tama aroha. I roto i tenei take, e hiahia ana koe ki te ui i tō tetahi aroha ki te hoatu i te whaea ake whakarongo ki kore ia e whai i te tikanga o te fakamasiva. Ko tetahi ara pai e taea e koe te whakamahi i te mea te "unuhia" i roto i-ture i runga i ngā take ohaoha Here. Kei te karanga a te reira "therapy taunanawe". Ki te aroha tetahi mama tuarua ki te hoatu i to ratou whakaaro, ka ki tona ahua faaite te hari ohorere, me te kōrero ki tana mahi ki te mahi o nga take katoa i roto i te mea te reira (i roto i tona whakaaro) matau pai. Na hohoro te haere atu hoki te mahi ranei mo tetahi atu hiahia, me i roto i te ahiahi ki te whakawhetai pono, ka korero ki ahau, he aha te mea te reira te mataku whakaorangia koe. Ko te mea matua ko te ki te riro te itoito, me te itoito o tenei wā whakawhitinga. Na reira, titiro, katoa āta he whaiaro-whakaritea.