Me pēhea te ki te mutu te mangere, katoa o te mangere ranei

Katoa te tangata i te iti rawa kotahi i roto i to ratou oraraa (a, te nuinga pea, me te neke atu i te kotahi) ite tenei āhua: takoto i runga i te moenga, a tawhio noa te maunga o te paru, i e te mea e tika ana ki te hanga i roto i runga i te tepu pūrongo oti me te reta tatini i roto i te ī-mēra, i me te whakahoki, ka takoto koe, ka whakaaro e mahi nga mea katoa i muri. A, kia rite ki matau koutou, e kore e mahi i tenei mea, engari e hiahia ana ahau ki te hoatu ki a ratou hoki i runga i muri, a rite te Oblomov, te mea tawhiti, engari ahakoa whāinga mahi.

Heoi, tupu te reira e te tangata, engari faataime ka faataime, i te wa ano kanga ia tetahi mea e; Kei te te mamae ia, engari e kore e taea e tetahi mea e pā ana ki reira. I mua i feruri koe i roto i te mea ki te mahi me te pehea, ki te mutu te mangere, e hiahia ana koe ki te matau he aha momo o te mangere puta. He momo rerekē, hei tauira, te ahua o te mangere, ka koe tino kore e mahi i tetahi mea, me te tika takoto iho, titiro i te tuanui, ranei atu - ka koe e mahi i te tahi mea, engari e kore te mea e hiahia ana koutou, e maka ana i nga mea nui hoki i muri.

Na, he aha te mea te mangere? whakarato Psychology he whakahoki tino māmā, me te pau: mangere - ko reira te hinaaro ore ngoikore ki te mahi ranei. I te tahi taime e taea te hehema ki te mangere kakahu me te huru tumu, ki te he te reira e tika ana ki te peculiarities o ngākau, i roto i taua mau huru ohipa, he uaua ki te whakaputa ke i te tangata. Heoi, te nuinga o maha i roto i te mangere i reira ko te take motuhake. He maha ngā take, me i te mea rite hanga te tangata e kore e ki te mahi i tetahi mea rānei, whai koe ki te whiriwhiri i te ara e founga ki te mutu te mangere.

Tino maha tupu e tika ana ki te mangere ... te hoha, he tangata e kore te mea ngā noa te mea ia e. tītohunga Tino angamaheni mō ngā ākonga e kore nei whiriwhiri ki ako, engari ki te noho wa i runga i atu ngā mo ratou mahi, mo te iwi wenewene mō tō rātou mahi, engari e kore e rite ki te huri i tetahi mea. Me pēhea te ki te mutu te mangere i roto i tenei take? He kitea te whakahoki, whai koe ki te huri i mahi ranei anō-kitea te tahi mea ngā i roto i te mea e mahi koe, he taea reira, ki te kitea he hihiri nui mo te haere tonu o te whakangungu-kounga teitei o nāianei. Hei tauira, te hihiri hoki te tangata mahi - ko ki te whakapai ake i te mana me te pūtea pai-oranga. Ka taea e koe te tamata ki etahi hopoia te mahi, engari ki te i te kau e kore e taea ki te huri i tetahi mea, i a koutou i te tautoko o te whaiaro-ako, i te mea anake te ara ki te aro te mangere e pā ana ki ina tīmata ana.

Ina tīmata ana rite te huru pūāhua - ko tetahi take noa he aha e mangere te iwi tenei. I roto i te take o te kore o te whakahaere titau te reira i mahi ōrite ki runga ki a ia, ki te āwhina o te rārangi o ia rā, pania hōtaka ki wā poto engari auau, te haapa'oraa i te rātaka. he tika ki te mahi ki nga take o te rere te reira, a e kore e kia whakaaetia ki te whakaemi mea. I tua atu, he mea nui ki te āta tāutu ngā whāinga, me te tika ki te whakatutuki i a ratou, mahi iti. Ka taea e koe te ako i te mau parau tumu o te whakahaere wā, me te kia whakakahoretia atu o te mangere, a ka kia ngahau te mahi.

kia meinga te mangere i te rohirohi tinana ranei aronganui kino meinga e te ahotea kare ranei. I roto i tenei take, hoko whakakahoretia o te mangere - ko reira okiokinga. Mai i ngenge aronganui āwhina faafaaearaa kiko - e kore te takoto mangere ki runga ki te moenga, me tetahi huringa o te pae, he haerenga ki te āhua, te arearea hou. Ki te mea ko ngenge koe i te pae tino, e kore e kupu koutou ratou, ka mamae i te mea kua unuhia atu hoki nga mea nui, farii i tika te meka e hiahia ana koe he okiokinga, a ka hoatu te wā ki te faafaaea koe, e taea hoki e whai mahi, he pānga painga i runga i te huru whānui. E te ara, e tauturu te hākinakina ki nga mea katoa o te mangere.

He te mangere, tau'a, te uaua tino i roto i te hinengaro tirohanga mahere o te mangere. tupu te reira i taua kahore he tangata pai, e kore ia e kite i roto i te mua o ia te tikanga o te ora, me te kore e matau ki ta ki te mahi i ki toku ora. I roto i tenei āhuatanga, riro te pātai matua e kore pehea ki te mutu te mangere, engari te pātai o te pehea, ki te toe i te reka mo te ora. Ka taea e koe te tamata ki matau ratou, ki te huri i ngā kaupapa matua, meinga he rārangi o ngā whāinga me ngā mahere, ki te moe. Heoi, i ētahi wā he reira pai ki te rapu i te tauturu ngaio.

He āhuatanga i roto i nei mahi rite te ara mangere ki te tiaki ki rahunga. Whakaaro e hiahia ana koe ki te tīmata te mahi i runga i te kaupapa hou, me kua whakatakotoria katoa peka koe, pea kei wehi noa e ka mea katoa e kore e rite ki te pai rite e hiahia ana koe, e wehi e haere he te mahi ranei koe. I roto i tenei take, kotahi te ara i roto i - ki te whakaae ratou wehi, me te tango i te tūpono, no te mea ki te mahi i te mahi ka tonu i ki.