Me pēhea te ki te hinga i te wehi o koutou ake?

Te tangata i roto i te kōhungahunga karapotia e te tahi atu mau taata. Ko, ahakoa, mo te iwi maha, he maha whakapā ki te hapori te puna o ngā raruraru. e mea he e ki te tatou kōrero tonu ki to ratou taiao, kia whai tatou kahore wehi o te tangata. Ko te hopoia, ki te aroaro o whaikōrero tūmatanui, te hiahia hoki ngā hui nui i te mahi, me te i roto i te tahi atu āhuatanga ōrite te wahi e hiahia ana tatou ki te whakapuaki io rātou, puta reira e kore e rite tatou. Me pēhea te ki te hinga tou wehi? Me pēhea te ki te riro whaiaro-fakafalala?

I roto i ētahi wā, ka taea te faataa wehi e te tahi mau ngā mamae e pā te konä, riro te puna o te phobia pāpori, ka kore e hiahia te tangata ki te haere atu, wehi ki te kōrero ki ētahi atu. Ko e onge take pera.

He āhuatanga tino rerekē ko te ina he hauora, he tangata, engari mo etahi take a'usia etahi uaua i roto i te whakapā pāpori. Hei tauira, ki te tangata māia i roto i tona matau ake, engari paruru i to ratou mata o te tirohanga kore e taea e. kahore e etahi matau me pehea ki te faaite mana'o kia kia e matau ratou e te iwi tata ki a ia. Ētahi no o ratou ake tāú me te tikanga â o te mărû e e wehi ki te hanga whakapā ki te tangata e he pai ki a ratou. rite ratou te tahi mea e pupuri i te roto, e kore tuku ki te hanga i ngā hononga pāpori. Te tangata he ti'aturi i runga i whakaaro o te tahi atu iwi, wehi aro haehae mawhiti me te reira mau te wa katoa i roto i te taumarumarunga iho, otiia he mea huna e hiahia ana ki te waiho i te rangatira. Neke atu i te wa, ka taea e enei raruraru arahi ki kawa, inoino i runga i te ara iahiko ao me i te "take." He aha te take e memeha? Me pēhea te ki te hinga i te wehi o koutou ake?

takoto te lēsoni i roto i te meka e faka'ehi'ehi mei takoto mo te whakaaro ki o ratou ake wehi kore ko te tikanga korero. Anake i mawhiti tuatahi te mea te reira e i roto i to ratou ake ara iahiko ao ake ngāwari te ora hanga. I roto i te meka e kore ko reira.

he siokita āhua Human. Ki te mana'o te taiao o koutou wehi, i nuinga o te wā, anake te ta-whaiaro e taea tatari hei utu o te tautururaa ia e tika ana ki "skromnyagi". O te akoranga, i reira he Hamari wae e e taea ki te kaiwhakamarie, me tuku moni he ringa, ki te kite ratou i taua tangata e hiahiatia ana. Engari kia rite ki te tikanga, iwi - "konihi." Na e hiahia ana koe ki te tiaki ia koe i a ratou i te tino. Na, me pehea ki te hinga te wehi, me te ki te whawhai hoki i roto i te āhuatanga uaua?

Papû ore i roto i te tokomaha ki te kawe ake i te tamarikitanga: mau metua tino, e kore e kaiako he mahara ki (ahakoa pohehe) he rota ki te wahi i tuakiri o te tamaiti, e rapu tāpaetanga. ora wehi i roto i te nuinga o te iwi.

Ka taea e koe te hinga wehi, paitanga ki te āwhina ā-waho. Ki te mahi i tenei, e kore koe e hiahia ana i te kaimātai hinengaro, ka taea e ara te mahi koe i waho i te "koti" hoa me whanaunga.

Ki te pehea e o wehi, me te riro whakawhirinaki i roto i te hiahia ratou ki te kia whakangungua (mahi ranei). Success i roto i te hākinakina, tei runga i te uaua papatipu me te koinga pūkenga. Hoki i roto i te ora ia rā ki te whakatutuki angitu ka rapua e whakangungu. Na reira, kōrero rite nui rite taea, ara, ki te kore koutou e ite i tēnei hiahia. Travel waka, kaihoko i roto i te taonga, e noho tata - te katoa e taea riro "kaiwhakangungu" ki te whakawhanake i to koutou maia, me te haere noa i te wehi. Na ka matau koutou hohoro pehea ki te hinga te wehi, ka e taea ki te akakoromaki i reira.

I roto i te tukanga o te kareti kōrero i runga i tona interlocutor me tona whanonga waho, e kore e ngana ana ki te feruri i roto i te mea i whakaaro ia kia rite ki kite koutou, a he aha te ongo hua koe i te reira. Me koe ki te ako ki te arotahi ki runga i te kōrero o waho, ki te whakakahore e te "i roto Monologues, tohenga" e hoatu ara ki te wehi ingoa. Tenei ka tukua ki te kite i te tauhohe o te interlocutor, ki matau te mea kua ia i roto i te ngakau. I tua atu, kia taea kitea e koe toenga i roto, me te kia whakakahoretia atu o ngā raruraru whaiaroaro i roto i te kōrero (korokoro maroke, whango ana, werawera i runga i te rae), me te hinengaro (e kore koe e wareware ki te mea e hiahia ana koe ki te mea, ka tiki ngaro).

Ka taea hoki te tamata ki huihui ki te tikanga o hi'ohi'oi ratou wehi - ki te hanga i te rārangi i tuhituhia, a ka tahu ai. Tenei ka waiho he whakaoranga hinengaro i te mea wehi koe i mua. Just te kimi i te haere noa i roto, me te tīmata ki te kōrero i runga i te taahiraa rite, ka matau koutou e founga ki te hinga i te wehi.