Aroha, whaiāipo, aha ki te mahi?

I te tahi taime tupu te reira e hinga i roto i te aroha ki te tangata, huri i te reira i roto i taua he reira aroha nonreciprocal, aha ki te mahi i roto i te take i taua, ko reira uaua ki te mea no te tino. I muri i te katoa, tika toto o koutou ngakau, e hiahia ana ia i roto i te ringa o te kotahi aroha, engari kāore, te reira e taea. A e kore e matau koutou pehea i taea e tenei pa ki a koutou, i roto ia koutou tika kai ake te riri me te mauahara mo ahau, no te mea kihai ia i aroha ki a koe i te ara a koutou katoa i tona ngakau me te wairua. Ahakoa i roto i te noa'tu o ta outou mau tautooraa katoa ki te utu i tana whakarongo ki a ia, ki te whakamatautau i te pono o to koutou mau mana'o, pakaru katoa i runga i nga toka o inoino, pōhēhē me te tau'a. Ko te aha, ki te tutaki koe i te aroha, whaiāipo, aha ki te mahi ki a reira - ka wareware ki te haere tonu ki te ora mo ratou ano, no te mea whai koe ko te pai ano ki te haere mai.

Ko e mo'oni, maha mahi tika e te mea tino uaua, tata fuu hoki te wahine i roto i te aroha, engari to koutou kahore ara atu i roto i. Kei te kore koutou noho reira te toenga o tona ora i roto i te mate, me te mamae. O te akoranga, timata whārua etahi wahine, me whakaaro e pā ana ki te ora hou e kore ia e haere mai ki te ngakau. Otiia i roto i te vairaa mau, ka kitea e koe i te aroha hou, a ko wai e matau ana, pea e kia koutou whiriwhiri muri koutou tane ake nei. Ko Ko te aha kia kore koe e pawera me ki noho i runga i te parekura, me inoino. kia titiro tonu tetahi ki te heke mai kanapa. aroha, whaiāipo, aha ki te mahi i roto i te āhuatanga i taua, ka taea e koe te āwhina i te torutoru tohutohu, engari whai koe koe ki te whakatau mēnā e hiahia ana koe te tauturu ranei e taea e ki te whakaea ki te mamae anake koe.

aroha, whaiāipo, aha ki te mahi? Tuatahi o te katoa, e hiahia ana koe ki te wareware e pā ana ki reira, mo tenei e hiahia ana koe ki te mutu tonu te waea ki a ia. Kāti whakapawerawera ia ake ki te karanga reo, ka manawa ki te ngongo, me te noho puku, ranei kino te tahi mea tangi, me te inoi mo te hui. Kati whakama, mahara te rangatiratanga, me te whakapehapeha. A, ki te hiahia koe ki te karanga i reira, he mea pai ki te waea i te maha o tona hoa kōhine, ka kōrero ki a ia, ka tino koe hei māmā, koutou aroha, whaiāipo, aha ki te mahi ki a reira, ia taea korero koe.

Hurihia tetahi mea i roto i toku ora. A tuu i to koutou home horoi puna, ka taea e ara hanga e koe he raupapa. Me hoki ki te maka atu i nga mea katoa e whakamahara koe o ia, ara ki te he ratou rawa aroha ki a koutou, ka pārekareka ki. Ranei ka taea e koe te utu ratou i runga i te wā ki a koutou hoa, me ka mutu ai te puehu ki te tango hoki. kia mutu te reira ki te kōrero ki te iwi e kōrero ki a ratou tonu ki te kore ika hoki ngā mōhiohio i ratou hinana ranei.

Ko te ara pai ki te wareware e pā ana ki te tahi mea - ko ki te haere upoko tuatahi ki te mahi. Fokotu'u ha taumu'a hou e me te whakatutuki ia koutou i roto i te heke mai e tata ana. Te uta koe ohipa. Kia koutou whakaaro katoa i runga i te mahi ka waiho pai atu e koutou aroha, whaiāipo, aha ki te mahi ki te wahi e koe tika e kore e mohio, e kore e hoatu te rangimarie o te whakaaro ki a koutou. Ka taea hoki te whakauru i roto i tetahi akoranga e ka whai hua ki a koutou, kia waiho ai hei kura taraiwa tika ranei te kanikani kopu. Tīpakohia koe te tahi mea ki o ratou matua. Kia te mana'o pai lōmekina koe.

Tangohia tiaki o koe. Haere ki te toa kaiheu, ka taea e ara e koe te huri i te whakapakoko i te pōro makawe tika ranei ka hoatu ki runga ki te āhua iti. A he aha e kore?! A haamata e haere ana i runga i te ngä ngā, kanikani, te wahi e tonu koe e karapotia ana e aro toa, me te āta wareware e pā ana ki to ratou mau fifi. Ko wai e matau ana, pea ka tutaki koe ia rangatira me te waimarie, i te pae hopea e ataata koe.

Ko te kupu, i te aroha, whaiāipo kua mate kahore tetahi. Ko te mea tino nui, ko te ki te whakaturia koe i roto i te ara pai, me te ki te haere i mua, e kore titiro ki muri. Wareware e pā ana ki te mua, me te whakaaro e he hauora, me te ataahua koe, a ka tonu koutou e! I muri i te katoa te mamae āta haere atu a te mutunga wareware koe ki te whakaaro e pā ana ki taua tangata, kahore e kore e taea e kotahi noa whakaaro ratou ora.