"E wehi ana ahau ki te haere ki te kaimätai hinengaro": me pehea e taea ai e au te awhina i tenei take

Ko te nuinga o nga mema o te hunga ngoikore o te wahine kaore e pai ki te haere ki te taote i te waahi mo te maimoatanga o nga mate "wahine".

"E wehi ana au ki te haere ki te kaimatai," - he kupu noa. Ko te nuinga kaore i mohio ki te whakatutuki i tenei wehi.

Engari kia maharatia he tohunga rongonui te kaimatai, ano he taiohi, he kaitautoko.

Ki te kore koe e taea e te āwhina whakaaro: "Au e ahau wehi ki te haere ki te rata mātai," - katahi mohio te tākuta i raro i tetahi huru haaparau matatapu hauora. I tua atu, ka whakaatuhia e ia te tino taumaha me te kore e aro ki te waahanga "morare" o to oranga ake. Kia mahara ko tana mahi matua ko te kimi i to aha e mate ana koe, kia mohio ai koe ki te tohu tika me te whakarite i te maimoatanga e tika ana.

Ki te mea kua tae tuatahi koe ki te kite i te taote, i mua i te mea ka mea tonu: "Kaore au e wehi anake ki te haere ki te kaitohutohu tangata, engari ka whakama ahau," ka kiia ko te "kahakaha" he urupare tino taiao. I tenei take, maharahia i roto i tenei take ko te taote ko to hoa anake, na ngana ki te whakawhirinaki ki a ia i nga mea katoa. I te wa kei muri mai, i muri i to whakaaro kaore koe e pai ana ki te whakahaere i tetahi whakamatautau hauora, ka mohio koe ki te tukanga o te toro atu ki te kaimatai ki a koe, a kaore koe e ki atu: "Ka whakama ahau ki te haere ki te kaitohutohu tangata."

Kaua e tautuhia ki te kaunihera hauora me te wahi e mahi ai te wahine. He mea tino hangaia i roto i tetahi huarahi e pai ana te tirotiro me te mamae.

Ka taea e koe te korero ki te rēhita: "Ka haere ahau ki te kaitohutohu mo te wa tuatahi," ka tukuna koe ki tetahi taakuta. Na ka kaha ia ki te whakarite i te kore o te pouri i te wa o te whakamatautau hauora, a kaore koe i te wehi ki te toro ki te taote wahine.

I roto i tenei whakaaro, me fakamamafai kia reira e te tetahi mamae i roto i te whekau whakaputa uri wahine e taea meinga te tukanga o te whakauru ki te taonga matao tenetene, pēnei i te speculum. Engari, kaua e wareware he pai te whakamohoatanga o enei taonga hauora, a kaore te taakuta e whai waahi ki te wera ia ratou mo to taenga mai. Ka tino mohio te kaimätai hinengaro kei te hauora te hauora o te manawanui. Ko nga whakaaro o runga ake kahore he koki koi, kaore rawa he patunga i roto i nga mate.

Ki te kore koe e waiho i te whakaaro: "E wehi ana ahau ki te haere ki te kaitohutohu tangata," no te mea kei te whakaaro koe he pai te whiwhinga o nga taputapu, ko te huarahi ano hoki kei tenei ahuatanga. I roto i te rongoā ka taea e koe te hoko i tetahi kete tirohanga kotahi-wa, i te taha o te kaituhi, ka whakaoti i tenei raruraru.

Ka iti iho te mamae o te whakamatautau mēnā ka whai koe i nga tohutohu a te taote. Kia mohio koe ki tetahi mea ngawari: kaua te taakuta e nui ake te wa mo te whakamatautau i te mea e tika ana, mehemea kahore he take mo tenei.

Ko te korero ake ka whakaatuhia e koe nga tohu o to mate, te tere, me te mea tino nui, ka kitea e te kaimatai. Kia mahara: kaua e huna mai i to taakuta i ou ake raruraru hauora o te taiao taiao.