He aha ki te mea ki te kotiro i runga i te rā tuatahi

To'u Tupú - wā koura ... enei rārangi o irava fakamamafa'i te ataahua o te taiohitanga, i nei te wa atu nui atu i ake ake ki te takoto ritenga. rā Tuatahi, aroha tuatahi, tūtakitanga whaiāipo, tūmanako, ngā wawata, me moe. Ko wai e kore i haere i roto i te reira? Katoa kupu i roto i tenei wā e taea te hoatu taime o te koa pouri ranei. Me pēhea te ki te tiki maheni ki te kotiro, me te hanga i te hononga ngalongataa me ki tonu o ongo, aha ki te kōrero e pā ana ki ki te kotiro i runga i te rā tuatahi, me pehea ki te whakarite i te whaiāipo farereiraa, ka hanga i te ahiahi he tetahi fakangalongata'a? Enei a he tokomaha atu take o te āwangawanga rapu i te hononga whaiāipo ki te māngai o te hawhe ataahua o te tangata te kahui ka taitamariki tangata.

Noho i runga i enei take katoa i kotahi he uaua nui, na te whiriwhiri i te take wā mō te tokomaha: he aha ki te kōrero e pā ana ki ki te kotiro i runga i te rā tuatahi? Ko reira kahore ngaro e i te hui tuatahi, a ka tei te rota i runga i te āhua o koutou tikanga me pehea te tangata taitamariki interlocutor kitea ia e whakawhirinaki ki runga ki te hokohoko atu o hoapā me hui atu.

Na, ko te rā tuatahi. Ko te mana'o o te mamahu wikitoria a e faaopua e te raruraru o te mea ki te mea ki te kotiro i runga i te rā tuatahi? Kia mahara te reira e kaiāwhina puku e kore i roto i tetahi take, me te te reira e tika ana ki te hanga i te kōrero ngā. kia mahi te reira na e taea e te kotiro ongo'i fiemālie, ka ko reira ngā.

Ko te ihirangi o te whakahaere te nuinga ka whakawhirinaki ki runga ki ranei i mohio i mua ratou iwi taitamariki, me te aha ratou e mohio e pā ana ki ia atu. Ki te ko te rā tino kia te mea tuatahi ki te tamata ki te ako i te tahi mea e pā ana ki ia atu. e kore e waiho he tikanga i. I roto i tenei take, ko te tangata taitama ko ki te mahara e kore e tatou kia whakairihia ake ki runga ki a ia, a ka he te reira e minaminatia ki te taea ai te interlocutor "pari." aroha Girls te aro, ara i roto i te take taua. Nui: e kore e te pātai kia urutomo, kia rere te kōrero fakanatula, ka kia o moni ki ngā taha e rua. Ano, ko te tangata taitamariki tu i te wa ki te wa ki te mau tonu i te kōrero, ko reira e minaminatia ki te pa o te arearea, me te mau mai i meka ngā me ngā o tona ora. Heoi, e kore e taea e matou ngaro titiro e e waiho he nui hape "mau otoheraa" ranei te hiahia ki te whakaatu ia ia ki te pai me te ringa pai. Kia mahara: ki te whakaatu me te whakamatau kore ko te kupu te utu, engari i roto i te mahi.

He te tahi mea ako e pā ana ki te wahi o te ako hoa hou, tona hapu, hoa, he ki te ui ia runaruna me pehea Ahatia ia wa noa. Ko reira konei e tino pea e taea ki te patu ake he whakahaere i runga i te kaupapa o te moni. He he tonu he tupono e pai te kotiro te taua waiata rite koutou, e rave te reira i roto i ngā mahi hākinakina me te mahi koe.

Next, aha ki te kōrero e pā ana ki ki te kotiro i runga i te rā, ko te kua mārama i riro te mōhiohio. A ka rere te kōrero i tahaki, Me wa anake ki te mau tonu i te reira, a kahore noa whakarongo ki te interlocutor. Na te eumiumi ka ite ratou te tangata taitama, te atu i humarie ka rere te kōrero. A, ki te i roto i te akoranga o reira ki ngā kōtiro tae i te torutoru haapoupouraa mau, e taea e koutou mohio e kore ko te hui whakamutunga tenei.

I roto i te mutunga, e kore tetahi e wareware ki te kitea i roto i nga mahere mo te hoa hou i roto i te heke mai tata, ka ui ki te hanga wa mo koutou, me te hui hou.

Na, he aha ki te mea ki te kotiro i runga i nui atu iti iho ranei mārama te rā tuatahi, engari e kore e katoa te reira i roto i te anga o te whakaoti i te raruraru o tonu te aroha me te whare hononga. tonu tonu kia tangohia ētahi taipitopito ki pūkete.

He aha ahau e taea e te mea he nui te kotiro i runga i te rā tuatahi, engari kahore nui iti, me pehea ki te mea i te reira. reo māia, marino, noho noa me te tū o te tangata taitamariki, ka meinga he kotiro te mana'o pai. Kei te mārama maioha tona kaha ki te pupuri i te kōrero e haere me te hiahia ki te pai - a ka waiho ahu he hui hou. Na kei te rite te mea kua hapu e ka whakaritea e kore ko reira,?!