He maha ngā urupare ki te pātai mauiui e pā ana ki te whai he aha ahau kahore hoa

Ko te tangata - he oranga pāpori, whakamatau faufaa ore. Ahakoa te nguengue tino oti ētahi wā e hiahia ana koe ki te kore koe e kōrero, kia i te iti rawa noho i roto i te hapori mō te tangata ki te ite tautoko o te tangata, ranei i te iti rawa te māramatanga me te aroha ki te tukanga e e tupu i roto i te wairua. Heoi, mamae atu me te ake iwi i roto i to tatou tau technogenic i moemoe, a fifili aha e kore ahau e whai hoa? Tatou ora-tatou kahore e i runga i te motu koraha, katoa a tawhio noa - he rota o te iwi, a ka huaina he hoa o te tetahi ... Na kia tatou, no te kamata, kia ui a te pātai: ko wai te mea tenei "hoa", me pehea e rere ke i te reira i te "hoa" me "hoa."

Te nuinga pea, ia o tatou i te iti rawa kotahi i roto i tona ora, engari ko ia wheako hoa (pai, ahakoa kino - ko tetahi pātai). Kia mahara ki e titore taua tangata i ētahi atu? Tuatahi, kua rapua e koe ki te kōrero tahi. tonu i koe ki te korero tahi i te tahi. A e kore koe kei wehi ki te faaite ki tenei tangata o ratou whakaaro ngaro te nuinga, kahore te wehi e ka kataina wehe ki te whakahawea ranei. Tuarua, kei te ue'i hoki koe e te hiahia ki te āwhina i tana hoa, kei te hohonu empathized koutou ki ona mate meake me oaoa katoa. A, tino nui, meatia koe e kite i te reira no te aha te mea te reira, e ko, e kore e tamata ki "hamani" me te whakaako. hoatu koe tohutohu, e kore e ki te tangohia o ratou whakaaro, tika rite i te auraa i te reira ki te tohutohu hoa tika me tohutohu, a kahore whakahau me morare. Na te reira te wā ki te haere ki te pātai o te aha he ki tonu i te hoa te tangata, a ka whai ahau kahore hoa tūturu?

Ko reira wairangi ki te kupu ia koe e kore tatou e e whai "mana", e he hoa. Ko reira wairangi ki te kupu etahi, ratou tau'a tika e me kore koe e hiahia ana ki te kite i te aha i te tangata faahiahia e koe. Otiia, ko te kupu whakahoki ki te pātai e pā ana ki te whai he aha ahau kahore hoa, takoto i roto i te manureva o te kōrero pāhekoheko koe me tou hapori tata. Ko te tangata e he 100 hoa, e kore he wehi ki te whakatuwhera ake ki ētahi atu. I roto i tenei tikanga, ka taea e tatou te mea e te auhoaraa - ko reira tino meá. Engari kia rite ki te mea ratou, kahore timata nei, ki kahore tetahi ki te inu piari.

Whakapono ahau, i reira i roto i to koutou taiao he iwi e koe kahore moni. Anake, pea, torutoru i roto ia ratou he pera tamau me te manawanui ki te aro ki o koutou "matuku taratara hongihongi".

Mahalo koutou wehe kua tona turanga: te tinihanga o te mua hoa pera-ka karanga kia pēpēhia i te pono o te tangata katoa. Heoi, ki te mea kua tukua te tangata ki a koutou, e kore te auraa i te reira e e mahi i te tahi atu tangata te taua, me te tinihanga - ". I ahau a muri ake nei hoa" e kore te mea he take ki te mea, Ki te koe - he nguengue, he iti pea ki te mamae i moemoe koe, engari e kore e koutou ao i roto mamae ki te tuku i te tahi atu tangata koutou ki reira. Tīmata i te rangitaki me te tuhituhi iho koutou wheako me whakaaro ngā - i runga i te wā ka hiahiatia e koe ki mariko "buddylist" e - ko wai e matau ana? - Ka taea e riro hoa tūturu i roto i te ora tūturu.

"Ko wai aroha - te aroha" - waiatatia i roto i te waiata rongonui. maha takoto te whakahoki ki te pātai e pā ana ki te whai he aha ahau kahore hoa, i roto i te hinaaro ore ngoikore ki te aroha ranei. e hiahia ana koe ki te faaite i to outou mau mana'o, korero o nga faingata'á, engari kaha hōhā ki te whakarongo ki ngā kōrero o tētahi atu e pā ana ki te tuwhenua me mau fifi utuafare o te iwi iti-mohiotia? Whakamātauria kore tukinotia rite te tikanga mo ki te iwi ringihia atu tona wairua, engari rite ki te tahi atu ao, te unknown, me te rawa ngā.

Wai o koutou ki te take te ritenga atu rawa: koe tino aroha ki te ruku hōhonu ia ki te ora o te tangata atu, aroha ahau ki te whakarongo ki ngā kōrero e pā ana ki ētahi atu iwi, me te kōrero i runga i te hunga i te mea tika, engari ko wai te mea faufaa he. Hoki koutou sociability katoa me te hiahia ki te hoko atu i ētahi atu tohutohu whakaaro nui (! No te mea e mohio ana kua koe te ora), rawa hohoro ka tīmata koe ki te ite a tawhio noa hororë koutou, ka ui maere koe: he aha e kore ahau e whai hoa? hāngai Friendship te i runga i te whakaute mō te atu rite te tangata. Kei a kore te kupu whakatupato i te faingamālie katoa, engari anake ki te mau te ui ratou iwi. Ehara i ki te whakaako, e kore moralizing, a i roto i tetahi take e kore e rāwekeweke iwi.