Me pēhea te ki te hanga i te aparauraa ki te kotiro?

e kore e taea e te tangata e ora anake. Tata ki te katoa o to tatou wa, free i te moe, kōrero tatou ki hoa me tangata ke. Ko te tikanga, te kore o te akoranga, iwi e kore hatepea atu tupu i te ao, ara ake raruraru ki te kōrero. Heoi, ka tae mai te reira ki te kōrero ki a koe, ano te kotiro, maha mai māngai toa ki te kopa e tioro ana. e mea he e na uaua? I muri i te katoa, i reira e pera maha kaupapa e taea te kōrero. Otiia ara te mea he tangata tino te mātauranga e matau ana te rota o ngā, a kihai tangohia o pūkenga whaikōrero, kōrero ki te wahine e kore e maha Katahi.

te hara ki katoa o te wehi ki te mea e kore te mea tika te tahi mea, me te hanga i te whakaaro kino o ia. Ka rite ki te hua, kua hanga e pono reira, engari e kore e hoki o te kīanga he, engari no te mea o te puku heahea. Na te mea ki te mahi i roto i taua āhuatanga? E mea ohie roa - e hiahia ana koe ki te kōrero e pā ana ki a ratou ano, ka whakarongo ki te mea e mea koutou ia (te tuarua, ko te ara nui atu). E kore e utu tetahi mea ki te wehi. Kōrero ki te tīmata ake i tahaki, a ka memeha atu i te te ināianei tuatahi. A, ki te kahore koutou e matau me pehea ki te pupuri i te kōrero ki te kotiro kihai ki te hoatu ia ia i roto i te marama kino, o tohutohu ohie te tokorua i muri, me te mea e pai ki a ia a koutou, ka hei mea katoa pai noa. Awareness o te meka e ko koe i runga i te ara tika, ka te tauturu ia koe ite māia.

Na, ko te mea matua i roto i te whakahaere - e kore e ki te toaruaru a kihai i hoatu e te wahine tana hōhā. I muri i te katoa, e hiahia ana koe ki te waiho i te mana'o pai e pā ana ki koe, a ki te mahi i tenei me te reira ki te feohi koe ki mana'o ahuareka. Na reira, e kore e meinga e whakahaere ki te kotiro i roto i te kauhau e pā ana ki te whutupaoro hōtaka ranei i roto i C ++. Hoki enei take, whai koutou hoa.

Ka taea e koe te tīmata i tētahi kōrero ki te korero i puta mai ki kahore obliges: te rangi, te tūāhua, te rongo hou, akoranga, me ētahi atu Otiia e kore e arotahi koutou whakarongo i runga i enei kaupapa mo te wa roa. Ratou Me anake ki te patu ake te whakahaere. Na e hiahia ana koe ki te karanga moni o te kotiro. Pea kōrero ia e pā ana ki te mea he hiahia ia, ara ki te kore e tetahi mea i roto i tenei tikanga e ratou ratou. Ahakoa o mea katoa, ki te whakaatu i to ratou, ahakoa moni tāwhaiwhai, whakamoemiti reira, hanga he haapoupouraa ngawari - ka tauturu i tenei katoa te waihanga koe he mana'o pai e pā ana ki koe.

A, no te haere mai te reira ki a koutou, i roto i tetahi take, kahore mea te mea e kore e amuamu, ara, ki te kahore e haere pai nga mea. Ko te kia ite koutou wahine pouri hoki koutou, ka āwhina a kia kite kotiro tauhou i roto i a koutou i te tuakiri kaha. Otiia e kore e haere tawhiti rawa, rawa, whakamanamana i te aroaro o te hinganga. He pai ki te whakahaere i te whakahaere me te kotiro i roto i te reo hawhe-hangareka. Kōrero e pā ana ki koe ki whakakatakata, ngahau, me te ngahau. Kaua e te kaipuke i te reira i te kōrero katoa o ratou mahi ako ranei. Kia noho ia i muri i tahitanga ngāwari tikanga o mea ngaro, e haere mai ana i a koutou, ara, ki te e noho koutou ki te tangata tino noa.

Korero te tikanga Me ki kia whakahaere anake i roto i te pai, me te reo kore-nui iti: e kore e kore totohe me kare kino, ara, ki te whakaaro koe ona whakaaro he. Kōrerorero ki te kotiro - he kore wahi hoki whaiaro ai ta-me te protrusion o tona "huru" tenei, ko reira - he kēmu whakaongaonga i roto i nei i te taonga e whiwhi koe ona wāhi.

Heoi, ko te āhuatanga taui te iti, ki te puritia e koe te whakahaere ki te kotiro i runga i te waea. I roto i tenei take, e kore e waiho te reira wāhi kōrero kore-kōrero, me hoki koutou te āhuareka ki runga reira e mahi he pea. Ki te tutaki koe i te kotiro mo te i, he pai ki te whakamahi i te waea anake hoki kotahi whakaaro - ki te whakaae i runga i te rā hou. Ko te taua pā ki kōrero i runga i te Ipurangi, i homai e koe noa iti wāhitanga ki te whakakitea ratou. Waiho i te Internet mo te reta pakihi me te putanga, te mutunga, he tino rā. Na reira e kua tei katoa ki runga ki a koe. Ko te mea matua ki te māia, me te kore e wehi. Whakapono ahau, e te faaruru ano ia kia rite ki te hunga koutou, a e whai koe ki te ako atu i te tikanga o te marino, me te whakawhirinaki i roto i to ratou ake aravihi.