Me pēhea te ki te hinga i roto i te aroha ki te kotiro e te mea wātea?

E rave rahi o te mau tamahine i roto i to tatou wa aru e te momo mahi i runga i te taumata hinengaro, "kore e haere mai whakatata ahau" ranei "Waiho ahau anake." maha tupu tenei, ara i roto i te noa'tu o te meka e whakamātau ki te hurihia ara kaiaka ma. tupu tenei e kore te mea o te whakarongo, tika rite etahi kotiro taitamariki whakaritea. Hei taa enei wahine uaua, Me tangata anake ki te wahi i tenei whakangungu rakau, a he reira kua waenganui ki te angitu. I roto i te torutoru noa meneti i mua i ani manihini koe ia vahi, e taea whai te wahine te ki tonu tika e kore e ki te tango i a koutou tino, engari whakaae tonu ki te hui. ka whakaaro kotiro uaua i taua wa o koutou rite te tangata macho e tu i roto i te toenga. Ko reira ki te waihanga moni i roto i tona matenga te ara katoa ki te angitu o te nui tino, no te mea i muri i te patu i tenei arai, wahine uaua whakatoatoa inaianei rite te toharite, me ki te riro ko te reira kua he rawa taea. Otiia hinga ahau i roto i te aroha ki te kotiro?

e hiahia ana te nuinga o ngā kōtiro ki te whai i te taata tino tūturu, ara, ki te kore e whakaatu i ana mana'o. Kei te rawa korerotia tenei āhuatanga i roto i kuini uaua. Me tika koe ki atu fefeka ki te kukume ia moni, wā maere, me te whakawhitiwhiti i runga i ngā kaupapa rerekē. Na ko te tīmatanga pai i roto i whakahoki i te pātai o te pehea ki tenei hinga i roto i te aroha ki te kotiro. I muri iho, me te tirohanga māia taea e koe ui ia ki waho, kia rite ki tetahi atu, tango anake he whakautu pai. Hoki nga wahine tokomaha, te karangatia i runga i te rā - rawa whaiāipo, te reira te mea tonu te pai. Ae, he tino whaiāipo ratou! hiahia wahine katoa tangata, a he ia kahore okotahi. pea ranei kei koe tika te tetahi hiahia ia, a kahore he koutou utu miharo ki te hinga i roto i te aroha ki te kotiro. whakamahi te nuinga o nga wahine i te rota o ngā momo rerekē o te ora i mua i marena ki. kotiro katoa moemoea o te ra marena, te kōwhiri i te rawa pai i roto i to ratou whakaaro taumau maskers maha rite mahi tatou! Women aroha ki te kihi, tauahi me te tiaki o te tangata. Tei roto te reira i to ratou toto. Ki te tangata rite ratou ki te inu kawhe, tirohia te whare taonga he konohete ranei. A ki te tangata ki te haere ki te nightclub. ite ratou whakamataku no reira he kahore taata te ao pera, a ki te tupu te reira, he mea tino onge. Reira a ani i te tetahi anake e pa te wairua, ki te waiho i roto i te wahi i reira e taea e koe whiti mahino mōrahi. Ano, e kore e pokanoa te reira ki te faaotiraa, rite maha moemoea o te hakari, kahore te tangata matatini. E karanga ēnei kōtiro i te po, moe e pā ana ki te taata nei e tiaki o taua mea, me te tiaki i te reira. E matau ana tenei, ite koe e hinga koutou i roto i te aroha tai he nui māmā atu whakaaro koutou.

Tino maha mahi nga mea ohorere, engari ahuareka. Hei tauira, i roto i te hui tango tika te reira, ka kihi ia ia i runga i te paparinga, ranei tango ia ia i roto i tona ringa. I roto i te whānui, faaohipa i to ratou tokonga, kia tamau, a ka ka te whakatutuki koe i te reira tika, a ka ngaro i te pātai o te pehea, ki te hinga i roto i te aroha Wahine i tahaki. Ki te ka waiho koe wātea mō ngā kōtiro tonutia, he tino ki te ngaro ia i te reira, a ka koe ka miharo kia pehea ki te hinga i roto i te aroha ki te kotiro. Kaua e mahi i te taua maha nga wa, e taea e te reira hōhā. Kaua e whakahoki kupu ana ngā pātai i faaiti i, ahakoa kihai i rite ki ētahi atu. Ahakoa, ki te he kua koe he tokorua, e kore e waiho te wa katoa anake ki a ia, e kore e whakararuraru i, i tenei wā ko reira kua taea ki te whakaatu ko wai te mea tino rangatira. E kore vedis ia i runga i te wawa, haere i roto i te rōpū o hoa. Na, hoki te kotiro e kore e waiho e koe ngāwari te āhei, te ahu tona utu, e ko te iti rakau ki tona mahi o mua o "Waiho ahau anake." Ko tino nui, te whakaputa hoki tenei wa pai. Tirohia te e kore e overdo te reira! I roto i te whānui, e kore e hoatu e ia e whakawhirinaki e aroha koutou ia, e tona taonga, mahara e whakawhirinaki whakamate te hononga! I muri i taua, tino pea, e kore e wātea i, mahi koe whakaaro ka waiho ia rawa ngā ki te whakaatu koe, ka whai koe i etahi mahi, penei i te reira rite te kotiro rawa mau ki te hinga i roto i te aroha ki a ia i mua i mate mahara. Ngā manaakitanga ki a koutou i roto i tenei kuware, huru kore taua i mawhiti tuatahi, mau! Te tūmanako, tohutohu i runga i pehea ki te kukume i te kotiro e taea e koe te āwhina.