Me pēhea te ki te huri i tō ora mo te pai?

Taunu e lau te taitara o te tuhinga, kia ui: "He aha te tika e te tangata unknown ki te tohutohu me pehea ki te huri i te ora mo te pai?"

whakaaro ahau e taea e hoatu e ahau i te torutoru o enei tohutohu, no te mea i ahau i te reira. Kua puta ke ahau toku ora. I roto i te ara pai taea.

I muri i te whakarere roa, me te uaua, i mahue ahau ki e rua tamariki. Na ka haere mai te hanganga. A i waho i te mahi pakeke o whakaako kōtiro hohoro heke ki te raruraru ohie: me pehea ki te whangai i a ratou tamahine? I aua ra i ahau kahore wa ki te whakaaro e pā ana ki te pehea , ki te huri i te ora mo te pai. Ko reira tika ki te mahi. e kore e utua te utu mo nga marama, me te moni, ara, ki te he nui ratou, te hoko i roto i te toa kahore i. Otiia hiahia ahau ki te hoatu hoki mātauranga ki ngā tamariki. I roto i te ra mahi ahau, ka moonlighted, ka awhinatia te teina ki te mahi i nga haapiiraa me nga kākahu aata-Tuituia ana pakeke: i whai wāhi ia i roto i te porowhita tapere. Na ka whanau he mokopuna faaipoipo paari i, i reira i ara iti te wā. Ko te whakaaro e he reira wa ki te huri i tō ora mo te pai, tika e kore e haere mai ki toku ngakau.

Na ka ohorere tupu kore anake tamariki, engari ara mokopuna. e kore ahau i hiahiatia. He aha i ahau i taua wa? Mahi, ki te mea i iti ahau, hua kino iho, me te ... moemoe. No hoa, kahore tahu, kahore opuaraa.

Here ko te pātai o te pehea, ki te hanga i te taa-te rara. Ko iti te kōwhiringa: rānei huringa, ranei te raru io.

ka anga ahau ki te mahi wawau, me te hauwarea, engari ki te mahi.

Hei tīmata haere mai i runga i Simoron. He he he pae taua. Ki te whakatau koe ki te huri i tō whakarau, tīmata ki a ia. I reira ka taea e koe ara koutou huru, kitea hoa. Na reira e ngā wāhanga: Ko te Way ki rawa, hiahia, āwhina, me te rota o te tahi atu. rite ratou ko hauwarea, engari te timatanga o te mahi o moe hangarau, ka whakatau ahau hoki ahau te mea e rite e hiahia ana ahau.

Na ahau e matau me pehea ki te huri i te ora mo te pai. Kua whakaemi he rārangi o hiahia, nga ara o ratou whakatinanatanga. Ki te pehea e o whārua whakaaro. Na ka tangohia e ia ia ia ano i roto i te ringa, ka anga ki te titiro mo te mahi. Ko ahau kore 40 tau tau, na te kimi i te wahi pai i neke atu i te uaua.

a koa Simoron ki te huri i i te pae i runga i te āhua o ki te titiro tika mo te mahi, a me pehea ki te whakarite i to ratou oraraa. Advice o kaimātai hinengaro, sociologists, me kaitukumahi kua awhinatia ahau: i ahau i te mahi nui. A kia waiho reira koutou taahiraa tuarua: tīmata ki te mahi i te mea he ahuareka.

No te mea te huru kino ētahi wā hoki, me hoa, me te kore i puta, i roto i te ahiahi, maha ahau noho i runga i te tukutuku. I tetahi o nga huinga tutaki ahau te tangata. E ki a ia tatou e pā ana ki te karakia, kihai i whakaaro whakaae, tohe matou e rua wiki. Na ka ko ia i runga i te haerenga pakihi ki toku pa. E tatou e wha tau, ua faaipoipo.

Hanga te toru o taahiraa: Haere ki runga koe, tīmata rapu hoki koutou mate wairua. Ehara i tonu, engari ka kitea e koe i te reira. A ka whai te iwi i te tino, me te mahi tino, ka takoto ko ia anake ki te kitea hoa.

Kua whakahoutia matou auhoaraa tawhito, kitea hoa hou ki te taua ngākau nuitanga. ka haere mai etahi o ratou, ka haere, ka mahue kahore wahi i roto i to tatou oraraa, ka te tangata he hoa tata.

Tirohia hoa tawhito, kitea mea hou. I muri i te katoa, kahore timata nei, kahore riro.

Ko te hunga e kore e nei hiahia ana ki te titiro mo te mahi, hoa hou, he kotahi aroha, engari tonu miharo pehea ki te huri i tō ora mo te pai e taea te hoatu tohutohu rite te kaimātai hinengaro (ko toku tohu tuatahi tenei):

• Kaua e wehi ki te moemoea. Kaua e whakawhāiti i to koutou whakaaro. mahi wā Dream. Katahi te liliu whakaaro, me moe rite. Hoki tenei ki te tupu hohoro, hanga he mahere o hiahia.
• Tīpakohia whakaaro, whakarite ratou i roto i te raupapa o te matua. A kua tukua ki reira, ahakoa i te mau fifi. E haere ana - tonu mai ki te mutunga.
• Kaua e mahi i te mea e kore koutou e rite. Just mahi mea aroha koe, ka hei koe hari ki a ratou ano.
• Kaua e tapahia koe. I roto i te ahiahi, Whakarāpopoto ake te ra, te manaaki koe hoki te taea ki te tino. A faanaho i apopo. Raveraa i te reira i runga i te wā, ka matau koutou te mea e hiahia ana koe, ka pehea ki te huri i te ora mo te pai.
• Hema i roto i te kōrero ki te oaoa i te rota.

Ngā manaakitanga ki a koutou!