Me pēhea te ki te kawe mai ki runga i te kotiro kahore te papa?

Tiaki tamariki - ko te kau matatini, me te tino nui. Kei te hiahiatia te reira he whitiki, austerity, engari i te kotahi te aroha te wa, me te tiaki. I roto i te utuafare oaoa, ina e ki fatongia tonu hoki tona tamaiti mātua, tupu te tamaiti atawhai, tika, me te mohio ratou tika, me te kawenga. Ko, kāore, e kore katoa i te wa ki tamariki, rawa ki te tupu ratou kotahi whaea anake. Na me pehea ki te kawe ake i te kotiro kahore te aroaro o te tangata i roto i te utuafare? Me pēhea te ki te karo i hape kino, me te tupu i te wahine tūturu?

Whiua, ka rite ki te papa?

I runga i te pātai o te pehea, ki te kawe ake i te kotiro i runga i te wahi tuatahi i reira ko te raruraru o te whiu. Mai te wawe tau e mahi tamariki ake, a te tahi mau taime te mahi tamahine tama kino. Na, ka rite ki waimarie e whai i muri ki kahore papa tino e kopikopiko soté ranei haere mai ki te here. He aha ki te mahi? Tuatahi o whaea katoa kia mōhio e kore tutu tinana e taea te tono ki te tangata - e kore te Pope ranei te whaea. infringes te reira i te tamaiti, hanga i te reira noa atu wehi, me te whakakeke. A i te mea kahore papa i roto i te whare, kia ara tākaro reira ki te ringa. Me mama he reo marino engari kei korero i te kotiro e kore e taea e koe. I muri i whakaweti toutou Me ki faaere te tamaiti he kai tino. A ki te pupuri i ki te mata kei.

Aroha hoki te popa?

Engari kia aroha nui. Whakaako ngā kōtiro tikanga e te hiahia ki te tupu i te tangata pai ko wai e matau pu ana te utu o te aroha. Ki te he tino tonu te whaea, e kore e whakaatu tou mau mana'o, koutou e kore e mahara e e riro i te tamaiti, he atawhai ana, me te ngawari. A, kia rite ki te kotiro i runga i te āhua - he iti tiakina, ka tamata ratou ki te kitea te aroha e kihai i whai ratou i te tamaiti, i tangata ke. Heoi riro ratou he patunga o hao taonga, me nga tangata tino ware. kia matau whaea mokemoke e ki te whakaatu mana'o ki te tamaiti e whai ia mo te rua.

Independence kaitiakitanga ranei?

e kore te mea e tika ana nui ki te tiaki o te tamaiti. Whakaaro me pehea ki te whakaako i te kotiro, e kore e taea e koe e wareware e pā ana ki tona tuakiri. kia riro te reira i motuhake, engari faahiahia ki te mohio e ki toku whaea i roto i te take o te ati tiaki ia. Ki te kahore i whiwhi toku tamahine ki te mahi i te tahi mea, e hiahia ana koe ki te ui ki a ia e te mea e hiahiatia tona awhina te. Ki te ae - ka te āwhina. Otiia ki te whakaputa ke i te mahi i roto i tetahi take e kore e taea ki te hanga i te tamaiti.

kaiawhina iti

He kotiro i te wawe tau kia mohio ratou whakaaro. Ia - tauhi'api. Na kua he rota o te kawenga ki te kia whakaritea i roto i te heke mai ia: tunu, horoi, tiaki tamariki. Mother Me whakaako i te tamaiti ki reira mai i te tamarikitanga. Hoki tenei ki te tāpiri i te tamaiti ki te mahi whare. Otiia ki Kahore he aha te huri i te mahi i nga ra. Me koe ki te tīpako i tētahi wāhi motuhake i reira e waiho te kotiro te "matua". Hei tauira, horoia te puehu, horoi rihi, kiri rīwai ranei. A e kore te mea e tika ana toku whaea ki te mahi i te mahi mo tana tamahine.

Tino he ataahua!

Ko te mea whakamutunga ki te whakaaro he pehea ki te whakaako tika i te kotiro, ko te hiahia ki te korero i te tamaiti e te mea ataahua ia. Ahakoa, ki te he kohakore i ahua taku tamahine, e kore te whaea e taea whakapūtā ratou. He pai ki te tuku maha titiro te tamaiti i roto i te whakaata, e matakitaki ana rite toku whaea hoatu ki runga ki āhua ranei te mahi i te manicure. Ka taea e ara e koe te haere ake ki te karakia: i runga i wiki ki ataahua tika i runga i te mata ringa ranei. Ko te tino ki te oaoa i te tamaiti. He nui mama ki te mohio me pehea ki te whakaara i te kotiro, ki te kahore te mea te whare he tangata ki te tamahine i roto i te heke mai i reira tonu, ka haere mai ki te whakaora.