Me pēhea te ki te whakatau i runga i te whakarere, ka he kore e taea ki te mau tonu i te whānau

Wehi kupu "vete" tomo te hinengaro, ka DG nga kākaá whakamutunga e pā ana ki te "oaoa ake i muri ...". Ae, te faaipoiporaa - he reira e kore anake te aroha me te kukupa. E whai ake i te tatauranga pouri, tēnei wā i roto i te maha o vete arahi te US ko Russia ki te māia. Heoi, he whakarere - e kore te reira tonu he mea kino. oaoa whaiaro ētahi wā, mo etahi take, e taea e kore e tutuki i roto i te faaipoiporaa kotahi. I roto i te wā, pērā i he mea nui ki te mohio me pehea ki te whakatau i runga i te whakarere, no te mea i tona ora katoa ki te hoatu ki runga ki te aata o te patunga - e kore te ara tino kouma i roto o te āhuatanga uaua.

He mea nui ki te mahara e te uaua puritia whakarere i te whakaae tahi. Ko te tikanga ko reira he tukanga kaua kino e te mea nui ake uaua, me te auroa, te mea i reira he tamariki tahi ranei hoa faaipoipo i reira he rerekētanga ki te wehenga o te taonga. Ko te 'amanaki ki te haere i roto i tenei katoa deters maha iwi nei e kore e taea e noho marena roa, a na reira he mea nui ki te mohio me pehea ki te whakatau i runga i te whakarere. I tua atu, i te tutukitanga waewae ki te tukanga whakarere e taea e ngā mātua, hoa, mahi, maha feaa, whaiaro tinihanga-, a na i runga i.

I roto i taua āhuatanga, ahakoa te meka e taea e te reira tino uaua, kia rapu koe i te tauturu i te tikanga noa. Ki te kore koe e taea e whakaora i te faaipoiporaa, na reira he kore hiahia ki te whakaroa mau faaotiraa faufaa. I roto i te whānui, i te take mō te whakarere ko te taua hoki e rua wahine me te tangata, engari haere tahi he mahi taua e te rota o te feaa e pā ana ki reira i te tuatahi.

Ki te whakaaro te tangata, "e hiahia ana ahau ki te whakarere toku wahine" - ona i te mahi taua te tikanga mau te peu, kahore he feaa e ka pai atu i te hakari i te hoa faaipoipo hou. Ia varavara whakaata i runga i te take pūtea o ngā raruraru whare, me te pera i runga i. N. I tua atu, i roto i te nuinga o te wā, ki te reira he tamariki i roto i te faaipoiporaa, noho ratou ki to ratou whaea, e faaore te hiahia ki te whakaaro me te i tenei taha o te pātai.

Ki te ta te wahine ki a ia: "E hiahia ana ahau ki te whakarere i tana tane" - e ki te feaa whakaahuatia ana i runga te tapiritia te rota o herenga rerekē. Tenei āwangawanga e pā ana ki te tamariki, he kore ki te kia marena, me nui, nui atu te mōrea.

Kia aroha mai, e kore e taea ki te hoatu tohutohu ao. Ia whānau takitahi taea rānei tonu i runga i te oraraa oaoa, a mutu ia ka puta etahi raruraru. Haere i te iti rawa, hei tauira, he take noa, me te tautohetia rite puremu. Ko reira e etahi āhuatanga e aro ki roto i tetahi take e kore e waiho. A ahakoa maha kahore e mohio me pehea ki te whakatau i runga i te whakarere, ka tonu kia ia anake te ara o te whakaoti rapanga.

he take categorical taua e kore e taea e koe mau tika, ngā te whai ake:

1) tutu ā-: Ka taea e te mea rānei tinana (patu) me te morare (matawaenga);

2) raruraru ki ti'aturiraa i runga i te waipiro taero ranei;

3) whakaoti incompatibility hinengaro.

Ki te tūtaki koe i taua āhuatanga e taea a kia ngana ki te ani i te tauturu, engari ki te kore e waiho te hua, aro ki tenei hoki te whakaaro ki o te tamariki (te take tino noa o te tiaki o taua mau faaipoiporaa) ranei ara mo te whakaaro ki o te tetahi atu - tino koretake. Ko reira tino tika ana ki te kitea te kaha ki te hanga i te taahiraa faufaa ora-whakaū rite ki te whakatau i runga i whakarere - i ētahi wā anake te ara ki te tiaki i te kiritau-a whakaara tamariki ora nei e kore e waiho hei kaiwhakaatu teka o whanaunga i runga i whakaitinga me te kore o te matauranga.