Tamaiti kino. He aha ki te mahi?

Pea i ki mataara te scene tohe i te hokomaha ranei i te mākete, ka he whaea taitamariki e ngana ana ki te wahia atu i te counter e hamama tamaiti tawhito 4-5 tau tono ia ki te hoko i tetahi motokā, he pū, he tamapua, monamona, ice cream te ringa katoa - he mutunga te rārangi. He horihori ona nganatanga katoa - i tona tamaiti karanga ki te whakahiko anō ki te pūngao, ko tona karanga, me te karanga haere ki hysterics.

He rota o kaitautoko o te wahine e ngana ana ki te ata ia ki raro. utu aro tangata ki taua iti "blackmailer" tata e matakitaki ana te mea kei te tupu a tawhio noa ia ia. Ki te whakaaro tatou e tahuri atu i etahi wāhi katoa me te timata ki te mahi i to ratou ake mea, te tamaiti rawa hohoro ata iho a tahuri tona aro ki te tahi mea atu.

Ko te tikanga tamaiti cranky - ko te kotahi e kore i taea e te tangata e whakaako i te tika ki te kōrero, ki te korero, me tona whare taonga o tikanga ki te whakatutuki i te hiahiatia te wheako anake riro ake ki te tau. Ara - ki te teka me te tangi.

Ko te hinengaro o te tamaiti i raro i te tau kotahi te katoa e hāngai ana ki te kōrero ki te pakeke e karapoti ana, matua ki te whaea. I te tuatahi, riro ia whakarongo ki a ratou ano i te te whakamahi i karanga. Kia aroha mai, i roto i te ngaro o te aro tika ki enei patu noho i roto i te ringa o te kuao hoki tau.

kihai ahau i pai kia hiahia ki te inoino maha ngā mātua, engari ki te whai koe i te tamaiti cranky, ka e kore e koe he mana mo ia. A feruri na i te āhuatanga tino noa e whakaatu te parariraa o te mau metua turanga. Young whaea anaanatae korero i runga i te waea ki tona hoa mo tata te haora.

kotiti te tamaiti a tawhio noa te fare, kahore hoki e mohio he aha te ki te mahi i. ka ui ia ki tona whaea, ki te hoatu ki a ia he aporo. Mother shrugs atu ia me te puku ki tona ruma. Otiia e kore e waiho e ia, tu ana ia taha i te taha, tīmata ki te karanga, ia taka ki te patunga witi, arahina reo. Ka rite ki matau koe, he whakahaere ki te hoa pahuatia, haere whaea ritenga ki te pouaka, me te hopoi mai i te tamaiti e rua aporo.

Tamaiti hohoro ite e o te whaea "kahore" e kore ko te whakamutunga, Na, whakarongo ki te mama e kore te mea e tika ana, me te whare matua reira - no te mea ka ia he aporo, ranei ara e rua.

tīmata tamaiti-feliliuaki ki te matau e ko tino tau'a ki te mea e hiahiatia ana tino ia i kore te aporo, me whakarongo tona whaea. He he he pikitia puāwaitanga o te hoko tuarua mai. Ko te pakeke te tamaiti ko, te utu ake e utu i te reira te mau metua i taua aro whakauru.

? Tino maha kōrero ki te tamaiti, he maha whaea heke ki te kaiwhakangungu torutoru kapa - "noho, ka mea ahau," nekehia "ringa," etc., no te ta te whaea taua: "E te tamaiti kino ahau, he aha e meatia e koe ki reira", te whakahoki, ko te .. rite te mea te reira, i runga i te mata. Me mutu tatou ia ki te kōrero ki te kaha ki te whakangungu kararehe e rua.

tupu tamaiti, huringa, me ngā mātua e kore e maha i te wā hoki ia. Ki te kore te hononga o ngā mātua ki to ratou tamaiti tino e huri kore ana hiahia e ngaro noa ki te tau. I mua i amuamu koe e pā ana ki te meka e whai koe i te tamaiti kino, tīmata ki koe. Ako e founga ki te kōrero ki a ia kia rite ki te pakeke, e kore te "ārero tehe", e kore e tamata ki te mahi i tetahi o ona râ, te whakamārama ki te koati katoa whakatau hanga koe.