He aha ki te mea ki te kotiro i runga i te waea

Ka rite ki matau koe, kōrero he aroha nui o te wahine i runga i te waea, engari kōrero ahau ki nga tangata rite rite te roa? e kore e maha eé whakapau neke atu i te 10 meneti o te mau a'oraa, no te mea kahore noa i mohio he aha ki te mea ki te kotiro i runga i te waea.

Te nuinga o nga tangata ka mau te tau waea o te kotiro, e kore e matau me pehea ki te tikanga i muri. Ko he tino māmā mea katoa, e hiahia ana anake koe ki te waea tau atawhai. Karangatia i muri tonu tutaki ratou e kore e koe e tatari o nga ra i te tokorua, te kore e whakaaro ki te kotiro e tika koe kahore ki te mahi whai, me he reira anake moni. Otiia e kore e hoki te mutunga rawa ki te hiahia, ranei mo o te wā o te moni ki a koutou tika ngaro te wā roa. Ka mahi i te kōwhiringa pai mo te pere tuatahi rite te rua o nga ra i muri i ratou tutaki.

He maha nga tangata whakapono e te mea e tika ana ki te kōrero ki te kotiro rite ki o ratou hoa, me e he rawa nui hape ratou. I mua i korero ki te kotiro i runga i te waea, kia matau koutou, e kore e taea e koe te whakamahi i te reo poke, tīmata i te whakahaere i runga i te kaupapa rawa banal. Te riroraa nui rawa, rawa, e kore e utu i te reira. I roto i te tahitanga aroha mau tamahine whakamarie, na noho hoki, rangi i roto i, me te pārekareka ki karanga.

e kore te mea e tika ana No take ki te karanga i reira, a ki te kitea te tahi mea ki te kōrero e pā ana ki ki te kotiro i runga i te waea, mea iti rawa banal pērā i: "tohutohu ahau te aha kiriata ki kite," ranei "Korero mai ki ahau he aha te rihi ki te tunu." Kia ka waiho te kaupapa o te moni ki e rua, ka timata te whakahaere mua ki te neke ki te whakahaere ātahu e taea muri mo te wa roa. I roto i kore take e kore e tīmata kōrero i roto i te aho pono tane. Wareware tika e pā ana ki tōrangapū, hī, whutupaoro me waka.

I mua he uaua te karanga tuatahi ki te mārama me pēhea ki te kōrero ki te kotiro i runga i te waea, kia kaua e kore e wareware i reira he SMSes. Waikōhua, moni ki te kōrero mā te tuhi i te kupu "whakahere ki te haere ki te kiriata" ranei "Kia pehea te e pā ana ki te tina i te wharekai." I muri i te karere taua kua ia e titau ki a koe te whai-ake waea, me te pātai o te mea ki te kōrero ki te kotiro i runga i te waea, e kore e tu.

e kore ko te nuinga i te kōrero e tika ana mo koutou e kore e mahi i te reira, engari ko te reira pai ki te whakaoti i te tuatahi. Me ite ia e he koe te tangata, a ka taea e te whakahaere i te āhuatanga.

Kia rite hoki te meka e te wa tuatahi ka ia tikanga parikārangaranga ki a koutou, me nga wa ruarua tuatahi e whai koe ki te kōrero ki a ia mo te wa roa. I roto i ngā take pēnei i, i reira kia pai mai ake kaupapa waitara. Whakamātauria ki kia koa, me te ngāwari, engari i te wa taua hoa faaruru tairongo, me te. Whakarongo ake, na te pātai o te mea ki te kōrero ki te kotiro i runga i te waea, whakatau ano. Tümanako e uru te kaupapa o nga kakahu huatau, me te huatau, te matapaki i te rongo o te mahi whakaatu, engari e kore e wareware e hiahia ana koe ki te kia faatura, me te ngawari. Jokes e taea te whakaaro koutou kamupene noa, kia tika whakawehi te kotiro, a tae noa ka ko reira pea ka taea ki te huri i tana whakaaro i runga i tō pūkete a koe.

He aha ki te mea ki te kotiro i runga i te waea, e taea te āwhina te rapu ona i mohio ranei hoa. Ki te he ratou, tamata ki te kitea i roto i pā ana ki ona ngākau nuitanga. Hei tauira, ki te aroha tetahi wahine kanikani ranei e aroha ki te himene, ka kōrero e pā ana ki te haere ki te whare tapere karaoke ranei e taea te whakawhanake rawa pai. I roto i te piiraa o kīanga e rua rite "Kua hokona e ahau e rua tīkiti ki te whakaatu" ranei "Kua hiahia roa ahau ki te mahi i te duet," koe tino e tākaro "i ringa" ka te āwhina ki a koe te riro i te interlocutor.

I roto i tetahi take, ki te kitea he kuware he kaupapa noa. He aha ki te mea ki te kotiro i runga i te waea parau koutou, i roto i era atu mea, pūmanawa. Ko te mea matua te kore ki te ite pakeke me te tightness, na ka i roto i tahuri katoa, a pea ka tupu kōrero noa ki te tahi mea atu. Kaua e wareware e maha haamata te hononga ki nga mea iti, a he mea pea i roto i tenei ture ki reira he okotahi.