Ki te mea kua puta ke te tane: me pehea ki te tikanga me te mehemea kahore ranei ki te tango i tetahi mea

Kia aroha mai, puremu - he āhuatanga auau. Otiia ki te puta ke te tane, kua, me pehea ki te tikanga tika, te nuinga o nga wahine e kore e mohio. A ka waiho whakauaua te tangata e taea ki te mea rite i roto i te mua, rite ki te whakaatu iho, ako e pā ana ki te taua maiki kino. Otiia kua roa te reira i mohiotia e kore te aroha mau i waenganui i rua iwi o tane rerekē e tīariari. Ahakoa, ki te korero e rua e pā ana ki reira, he mea e tika ana ki te matau e te wahi i reira he auhoaraa, i reira he ano aroha. A kua mohiotia taua mea, ka taea e ngāwari Käre e ki te tahi mea atu.

taahiraa Kotahi

Ki te puta ke te tane, kua, me pehea ki te tikanga, ia wahine whakatau ia. Otiia e kore e ururua koutou raru faufaa ore. Ko te mea tuatahi ki te mahi i te mea ki te kite ranei he pono te mōhiohio. A feruri, whakaaro, me pehea ki te hanga hononga ki te hoa faaipoipo hou. Ki te mea tenei meka kia pono, ngana ki te matau i te take. Ki te te kāinga moepuku tika katoa, ka, te nuinga pea, i titiro ia mo runga i te taha o te tautoko morare. Hei whakaoti i tetahi raruraru titau te reira mōhiotanga, rawa, ki te puta ke, kua te tane. Me pēhea te ki te whakahihi? Kōrero ki te tane, engari e kore e kia te whakahaere, kia whaikupu riri, me te accusatory, kua mahara te reira ki te kia hua. Mahi i te reira i roto i te taua āhuatanga te wahine Ko reira tino uaua, na kia rite i roto i te mua: panuku i roto i te matenga i te wa torutoru, rite, ngana ki te kia whakamahia ki reira ka taea e te whakawhanake i tētahi kōrero e pā ana ki te āhua o te mea taea tenei. Ki te kore koe e hiahia ana ki te whakamutu i te hononga, e kore te mea e tika ana ki te whakamahi i te parau o te tawhiti i tetahi ki tetahi, hoatu te wahine i roto i te mua o te whāinga.

taahiraa e rua

O te akoranga, e kore e taea ki te whakaoti i te raruraru hohoro, ki te taui i te tane. Me pēhea te ki te tikanga ka? Ahakoa, ki te whakamatauria tenei mahi ngoikore rangitahi kau, he mea e tika ana ki te mahi. Hei tauira, kia mohio koe ko wai "haere koe" i runga i te rangimarie whānau o te hinengaro me te oranga. E kore tenei tikanga e te mea e tika ana ki te tātai i te whakataetae, me te hopu ia makawe. He mea tika ki te mahi rawa āta i te tangata, ki te tahuri te reira i roto i, mo te tauira, e ko te reira i te wahine tuatahi, ko reira e tika ana ki te tango i te meka e te tamaiti, ka taea e ia te kōrero, me te hononga ki tona ex-wahine ki te meinga e koe te mamae. Me tamata uaua ki te arotahi ki runga i to outou mau mana'o, lea ◊aki ratou.

taahiraa e toru

He mea tino nui ki te akakoromaki i to ratou kare ki te kua ke tana tane. Me pēhea te ki te tikanga i ngā wā katoa, ki te hiahia koe ki te tangi kanga ranei? Kaua e mau hoki ona mau mana'o. e hiahia ana ahau ki te tangi - karanga, he riri koe - te tahuri i te whakaahua ki mongamonga, tahu tana tahu. Heoi, ki te faaohipa i taua ponana pai ka kite kahore he tangata. Ehara i te mea e tika ana ki te faaite i ki hoa me te whānau te mea i tupu i roto i te utuafare. I muri i te katoa, i roto i te pe'ape'a o te kare heitia ki runga koutou e kore e taea e matau me pehea ai tonu kia tika katoa te toenga o te ora i mua nei.

taahiraa e wha

Ki te whakatau koe e te whānau, ko te utu atu ki te ite e te vai nei tonu aroha, ka whakatau pehea ki te puta, ki te taui te tane, e kore e rere. Whakarato tautoko hoki ia ia. A, no te he hononga nui tō hoa e kore e taea ki te ora i te wa roa i runga i rua akina. Kia mahara, kua whakamatauria kaimātai hinengaro e ki te kore te te tangata i mahue i roto i te tuatahi o nga tau o tinihanga, te atu ia kia uaua atu tenei nekehanga. Na reira, ki te ui ia ki ahau ki te tatari, ki te hoatu ia wa ki te matau koe, he pai reira hanga utu.

O te akoranga, e hāngai ana te tohutohu i homai i runga e runga rationality. Heoi, me pehea ki te tikanga, ki te taui te tane, maha he wahine e kore e whakapūtā rite ki nga kare mua, me te inoino. Ki te rahurahu koe ratou kahore he kaha, tirohia ki te kaimātai hinengaro, ki reira koe koe whakatau he aha te whanonga he pai, ako ki te whakahaere i to ratou riri me mana'o.