Me pēhea te ki te ui mo te faaoreraa hara i tona hoa kōhine

Ko te hononga i waenganui i te iwi taitamariki, e kore katoa tonu maheni. He taime fakangalongata'a o te oaoa i fariihia e, engari e tupu te reira me kohukohu, me nga tautohetohe, me awerenga. He mea nui ki te tamata tona waimarie ki te whakaora, ki te whawhai hoki te whanaungatanga, te aroha, me te e kore whakawhirinaki i runga i whakarau. Ki te kei koe he, a ka ite hara ki to koutou aroha tetahi koe, e kore e noho puku. He mea tika ki te kitea te ara e founga ki te ui mo te faaoreraa hara.

Ki te ko te take o te whawhai te rihi i horoia, ranei paru kihai i tukuna, te tina teelangó, e kua rite koe tona ake, me te whare retracted, ka taea e te whakaora i te reira i te āhuatanga. waea pahonohia ranei te mutunga ki te hui, me te rapu utu koutou whakamārama. Kei te he rawa korerorero reira me, runga ake katoa, whakamārama kotiro tika aha tupu mea e ara. haere te reira i waho e mea e te hainga ataahua o te puawai he mea homai ataahua ranei - ko tetahi taahiraa tika ki te whakaoti i te raruraru, me pehea ki te ui mo te faaoreraa hara tenei. Otiia anake whakawhirinaki i runga i te mau horo'araa e kore e utu i te reira, te kore kia whakatika whakaaro teka i tou kotahi aroha e hoko tika koe to ratou ara i roto o reira.

Ki te he tawhiti atu nui koe, na e kore nga tikanga i runga ake e te tauturu ia koe. Hei te kitea te huarahi tika, me te ki te whiriwhiri i nga kupu tika, te taahiraa matamua, ko te ki te ite e kotiro kia nui pouri me te inoino. I muri i te faaotiraa o te take, tamata, ahakoa e kore e mea ohie ki te hoatu koe i roto i tona wahi. huri koe? Mahalo kua wareware koutou i te rā nui hoki ia? Whakamātauria ki mahino te āhuatanga, me te matau i te take, engari i muri i taua taea e koe te ui mo te faaoreraa hara i tona aroha. Fafau e whakatika koe taua mea, a kore e tenei pa ano, i reira he iti e hoatu ki a koutou. I roto i tenei take, pea tei katoa i runga i te kotiro ia. Ki te te āhua o to koutou aroha, ka taea ia ki te wareware e pā ana ki te huringa, e noho i te reira ki a koutou, te kore hoki e aroha kahore kupu whakaari e kore e hoki mai.

Hei ui mo te faaoreraa hara i te tino, ka taea e koe te haere mai ki runga ki te maha o tauari rerekē. Ahakoa te mea graffiti i runga i te papa kohatu i roto i mua o te whare, te tuhituhinga i runga i te taiepa, he matua hoia o poihau maha-tae ki te hainga nui o puawai ranei. ngā ki whakaaro o koutou kaha ka waiho i te kaiāwhina tino piri pono. Pea takoto koe i roto i tona ingoa ki te puawai rohi useete ranei ratou arahi te ara ki tona whare? whakatau koe, tika mahara e te mea nui, ko te kore ki te faahua me te tākaro. Kahore he take ki te whakapāha, anake ki te wareware he take riri. Kia mahara: I roto i te tikanga ki te mārama me pēhea ki te ui mo te faaoreraa hara, kia mohio ki te kaha tonu o tona hara. Anake ka āwhina i tenei ki te kitea te ara tika ki te whakaoti rapanga.

Ka taea e hanga e koe utu, ki te ki etahi wa mahi mea katoa te ui tau tino. Ia anake e taea te tohu e koe pehea ki te ui mo te faaoreraa hara. Ka taea e mukākā te reira i te hui ki o koutou hoa tamau mātakitaki ranei ngā mahi hākinakina. Homai i te reira te wa atu. Whakakōpeka ia. Haere mai tahi i roto i te wharekai utu ranei ki te paihere o te ice cream pukuhohe whānau titiro. Tenei nehenehe e tauturu i to outou kotiro ki ite e te faufaa tino ki a koutou he reira, a ka ōrite kore noa tetahi atu poikiri.

Kia pehea te pai ki te ui mo te faaoreraa hara? E mea tino ki te hei te tahi mea taketake, e kotiro i a koutou e kore kua riro. Hei tauira, i ia moe, hoatu ana e ia ki raro i tona hōtaka urunga tauira, e whakaatu ana i te ngā i puta i runga i tou kaupapa. I roto i te rārangi e taea te hanga e koe horoi i te whare, he tina whaiāipo, he mirimiri puoro, he manga photo, ngā haerenga, me te pera i runga i. Kia hoatu he whakahau ia koutou. I roto i ngā take pēnei i, ngohe maha ngā kōtiro tika, tīmata ki te mahi ake orotika me rite ki te wareware ara nga hara tino kino.

Ki te kore e tauturu i te tohutohu i runga ake, a kahore koutou e matau me pehea ataahua tatarahapa ki te kotiro, ka tamata ki te mahi i te reira i roto i te iwi whānui. Hei tauira, ka taea e koe te haere ki te karapu, i reira te takoto ia ki ona hoa, me te ui i te hopuoro DJ. I runga i te ruma katoa i te korero o te aroha, hoatu tona waiata tino, me te hoatu puawai - pato'ii te reira e kore e taea e noa. Kia aroha mai, e kore ai katoa o tatou tatarahapa kiri, engari ki te te hiahia hoki reira ko, na, he tikanga o te aroha kaha atu i tetahi atu, a me manuïa katoa!