Whawhe i roto i te kōrero

Whawhe i roto i te kōrero puta tonu, a ahakoa te connotation kino tūturu i roto i tenei ara e kore te mea tonu te kino,. I roto i tenei tuhinga titiro tatou ki te tauira tino angamaheni o te whawhe i roto i te kōrero i waenganui i whanaunga, i roto i te whanaungatanga tamaiti-matua, me te i roto i te kōrero pakihi.

i huaina whawhe ko te pānga i runga i te hoa kōrero i roto i te tikanga ki te whakatutuki i te hiahiatia i ia. Na kei te tika huna tenei pānga, ka kōrero kotahi tangata e pā ana ki, e hiahia atu. Whawhe i roto i te kōrero e whakamahia ana i ia te wā e kore e anake ki kaimahi o tetahi taumata o hokohoko mo te pai. Aau e kore ranei, whakamahi te katoa tetahi ranei tetahi kīanga ki te pupuri i te tetahi aroha / karanga reira he / kaha ki te whakaae ki tou hoa. e whakaaro koe e taua kēmu i runga i tou kororia, me e, rite koe he tangata mahara, e kore e hoatu i roto i ki enei tinihanga? Kia mahara, ki te rongo koe / te whakamahi i taua kīanga ake: "anake matau koe ahau", "E kore koe e aroha ki ahau i te katoa!", "Ki te haere koe, ahau ...." He mimiti Arsenal. Ko ake maha rāwekeweke i roto i tahitanga mea iti teimaha, me te whai i ngā taumata iti. No ka kino banal tetahi "Aita hanga he tea reka!".

Ka taea te totoro whawhe i roto i te kōrero i roto i te wa. Hoki tūturu ahanoa pupuri whakarongo āpitihanga whakamahia me whakamaumahara o ngā wheako pai, me etahi mea tino papai, me te neke i te kawenga me te pēhanga o te morare tūmatanui ...

Ngā mātua me ngā tamariki

E kore ai te kaupapa o te whawhe i roto i te hononga matua-tamaiti kia rite wā, engari kua horo tatou katoa ki te pakeketanga etahi "mea" i te tamarikitanga, a maha tonu ki te whakamahi i ngā rautaki ako i roto i te utuafare ano. Whawhe kinokore ka ratou whāinga - ki te whangai, me te horoi i te tamaiti i roto i te wa ki te ahiahi, kahore take. Heoi, i reira e etahi "tātau" mō ngā mātua e hiahia ana ki te tupu ake māia me te ao tangata e karapoti ana. Tenei whawhe o nga mana'o o te aroha, te wehi, te he, me te whaiaro feaa-( "Ki te kore koe e meatia e rite ahau e mea, ka hoatu e ahau he keke ke").

i mahi

Whawhe i roto i te kōrero pakihi e hoki whānui, me te e hāngai ana i runga i te mata ano. whakamahi rātou i te tikanga o te whakapehapeha, horihori o te tangata; Ka taea te tono me tātai motuhake. Hei tauira, ki te waiho, e ko he ta'etoka'i loto. E hāngai ana tēnei rauhanga te i hanga mau mana'o o te manukanuka, papû ore iho. Ka taea te whakamahi i te reira mana'o turai me tātai ka hanga hihiri pai ki te mahi i to ratou mahi e tetahi atu tangata.

Me pēhea te ki te mahi

Ki te whakaaro koe e e haavarehia koutou, a kahore koutou e mea ana ki te haere tonu ki te hoatu i roto i, i reira e he maha o ngā tūtohutanga rite ki te pato'ii te. Runga ake katoa, whakawhirinaki koutou instincts me wheako. Ki te ite koe e kore te mea tino tika, tino pea koutou hoa, i te take ki a koutou. Pea homai reira hoho'a mata, te huri reo. A, ki te taea e koe whakaaro e reira he raro tuarua o te katoleta, whakaaro e pā ana ki te aha te reira katoa. He āhuatanga faufaa o te whawhe i roto i te kōrero - he taumu'a huna. Ki te he reira kua mārama ki a koe, tika koe e taea e aruaru koe he kēmu tohe, hanga mārama reira ki te tangata e fifili ki ana whakaaro. I roto i te take o te tata, me te aroha e taea e te reira rawa mamae, me te mahi wehe ki whaturama o whanaunga. Ka taea hoki e koe te whakamahi i ki whakakitea te pono mo ratou ake take, engari reira me hoki ki te whai i te matenga hauhautanga, me te kia hoki he raweke iti.

Ngā kaimātai hinengaro te mea e te whawhe ko te taputapu o te kōrero, engari no te mea o ratou e kore e "pai" ranei "kino." He mea nui te reira, me pehea pānga ratou i to outou ora, me te whānuitanga ki te e taea e koe te tu atu ratou. He wātea i awheawhe motuhake, wā whakangungu, te wahi e mahia pūkenga ki te tiaki ki te whawhe mōhiohio atu. Ko te hunga e tika tīmata ki te ako e pā ana ki tenei kaupapa nui, kia ai taua mea tika ki te kia maheni ki te mahi o Eric Berne, e karanga te whawhe o "kēmu". He he huarahi psychotherapeutic ki te raruraru. I roto i te hunga e whakawhirinaki i runga i te huarahi pāpori, te tuatahi o te katoa - kaituhi rohe AP Egides e tuku tirohanga mārama i runga i te whawhe me huarahi ki te haukoti i a ratou.