Mama ohorere huritau: atu i ki te pai i te tetahi aroha?

No te marama tangata atu tata, me te aroha atu i toku whaea. I hapu ki to tatou marama tuatahi iwa ia, whakaarahia, hoatu tona here me te whakarongo, a na reira e pā ana ki te mau metua vahine i roto i tata motuhake iwi katoa. Ka taea e koe te faaite i to outou aroha i runga i tona huritau.

O te akoranga, ka kia pai nga whaea, ara nga ohatanga ohie i roto i te kupu i te tama, e arohaina tamahine ranei. Otiia, ki te whai koe i te faingamālie me hiahia, e kore he aha hanga toku whaea he ohorere i runga i tou rā whānau? Ka rite ki ki tetahi atu tangata, whakaaturanga ngā te huru whakahauanga - kia waiho ai hei ohorere, te reira te mea tuatahi. Na tuarua, ko, o te akoranga, kia waiho reira pārekareka, me te fakangalongata'a. Pea rite te tamaiti kua tamata kē koe ki te hanga i te ohorere mo te ra whanau o toku whaea - te tikanga ngā tamariki te mahi i to ratou ake horoi te fare, te whakarite i te keke huritau mo tona mama aroha mahi ranei etahi mea whare atu, i te nuinga o taka i runga i ona pokohiwi rite te rangatira o te whare.

Ko kua tupu koe, a ki te mahi i tenei ahua o te ohorere, rite nga rihi pomyvka, tino, rite matau koutou, wairangi. He aha te mea homai ki te hoatu mama te huritau i roto i te take taua, kia hanga ai he pārekareka, me te taketake? Matamua e te rahi, o te akoranga, kia rite ki tetahi wahine, ka ahuareka ana puawai ia. Ehara i tika i te hainga nui. Mahalo, ki te mea he hiahia i roto i te māra o ngā tipu kohua te whaea, no te mea ka waiho hei homai nui i te tipu ataahua, me te onge i roto i te kohua, me te pukapuka ki te tohutohu ki te tiaki hoki ia. Ko tino hainga puawai o tona whaea - te reira tonu te ohorere ahuareka, me te pai, rawa hoatu o hiahia whaiaro, me te tinihanga.

Hei hanga i tētahi ohorere mo te ra whanau o toku whaea, ka taea e koe "tango i te whatumanawa ki o ratou ringa ake" a ki te whakamahere me te whakarite i te hui motuhake hoki ia. Hei tauira, tāpui te tepu i te wharekai mō te hunga tata ki a koutou, a ka tukua atu te aniraa ki te whaea o tona ake hararei. A faanaho waiata ora, te tono i te keke huritau - e kore e he ohorere riro te pūtakenga, engari mo toku whaea, ka waiho hei take kia mawhiti i te hassle o hararei, me te ite rite te kuini o te whakanui.

Ko tētahi atu ohorere pai mo toku huritau - he ra puoro pau tahi - koe me tou mama. Tikina ia ki te kaukau, te whakarite i te haerenga ki te haerenga hōpara kotahi-ra, karanga ki eke hoiho, kauhoe i roto i te aihe dolphinarium, whai wāhi i roto i te kura tunu kai - i runga i ona ngākau nuitanga whānuitanga o ngā wāhi e taea ai e koe mo te ra ki te haere ki tona whaea rānei, he rawa nui. A ka taea e waiho he homai pai te haerenga tahi ki te whare tapere, he tino konohete o whakahaere o toku whaea ranei, rawa, ki te kore te maha hema reira ratou ki taua mahi.

Na i roto i te mutunga: huritau ohorere mama o e kore tika rapua e fakamolé rauemi. Ko reira pea e rite te mea homai tino âwhina hoki te mahi ia koutou whakatutukitanga whaiaro - i roto i te mahi, te ora whaiaro, runaruna hākinakina ranei. Hanga kaha katoa ki te whakatutuki i te hua, korero māmā e pā ana ki to ratou ahunga whakamua, me te whakatapua tenei paetae ki a ia fakatāutaha - he mea homai taua mo te tino e te ohorere tino mai.