Te ora Takitahi. Pai, ahakoa kino?

Te tangata pai ki te kia karapotia e maha hoa. moe te tangata o te whānau nui ki te mano o ngā tamariki iti, me te paihere o whanaunga ia wā toro. E rave rahi o tatou e tonu kōrero ki ngā hoa mahi, kōrero ki a ratou i runga i ngā take katoa o te ora whaiaro ... Ko reira he iwi e taea te mea ki te māia: ". Ahau e ahau he loner i roto i te ora"

He aha te tikanga o tenei mo te iwi? He aha te mea te "ora kotahi"? e kore e hiahia ana tangata, e kore hoa ranei te utuafare hoa ranei taua iwi. whakapono ratou e te mahi pai ki te katoa i runga i to ratou ake. whakaaro ahau e ratou whakaaro anake he anake te tika, e kore e hiahia ki te whakarongo tohutohu o te tangata. e kore ratou e hiahia kia te tangata ka karanga ki a wahia ratou te rongo. He pera awhiawhi, he hāneanea hoki ratou. E ratou he iti, me te i te wa ano i te microcosm motu nui i roto i nei e kore ratou e hiahia ki te tuku tetahi, no te mea whakaaro ratou e te taenga atu ano i reira, ka hei te tangata atu, ka ia ka tino e pahuatia.

E tino ki te waiho i te whānau ratou, engari e kore e ngā reira o te paihere o whanaunga e haere mai i te wa ki te wa, kahore pānui. I roto i toku utuafare, e pai ki te kite anake ratou ko o ratou tamariki ratou. Well, ki te pa ki a koutou te wahine, a kahore he tino te ora o te whaea kotahi kia kino rite katoa whakaaro. whakapono ēnei kotiro e kia tetahi mea ki te tangata anake a ratou tamariki, a te akoranga. whakapono ratou e kore tetahi e ngaua ake ratou ki te huri me te huru kino, tautohetohe utuafare me take he.

Te aha e mea na ohie? Kei te tika ētahi o ratou whakama i roto i te iwi. timata matou ki te whakapono e he poauau me te pipiri o ratou mahi katoa. whāiti ratou te porohita o te kōrero ki te iti me te ki te tiaki ia ratou me to ratou oraraa i te taiepa pohewa, ka mohio ratou e kore e tupu to ratou mau fifi no te mea o ratou ratou, engari mo te tangata ke. Hei karo i tēnei, kua wehea atu e ratou i to ratou oraraa o tangata ke.

whakaaro tokomaha iwi e te ora kotahi - te reira i te tahi ahua o te whiu, ka tonoa i runga ake, e kore e matau ratou e te iwi ki taua whakaaro whiriwhiri ratou tenei ara, tutakina e ratou ratou atu i te taiepa matotoru o te hapori, te kore ki te kite i rongo ki ta te tupu tua atu i te wehi ranei .

he ora taua whiriwhiri he wuruhi. Ia kotahi ra i roto i tika o te whakarihariha hipi ia ki ora i raro i to ratou ake ture, e kore ki te tuku ki te whakaaro i waho. hanga e ia tona utuafare, a te wā reira anake e tona whakahau. Ia, rawa, ora kotahi.

He aha te he ki te te tangata, kahore he tetahi i te wa ano i waho pokanoa ki te tika ora tona ora, me te e kore e piki ki te tētahi atu o? Heoi, kinongia ana taua iwi, a wehi i nga wa katoa. kihai ratou i matau me te tupato. Mō ratou, i mohio ki tetahi mea kahore tetahi, no te mea te mahi tetahi mea ratou i kore korerotia ki te tangata ahau. Ko te aha e whakaaro ratou ki te hei i etahi ahua o te kore tino noa, a kihai i rite ratou ki te take. Kua tonu ēnei iwi i faingataa rawa hoki te māramatanga noa.

Ko wai e enei iwi? Ka taea e koe te karanga ratou mea katoa rite koe: pūkenga puku rereke noa, paku rerekē - tonu. I roto i te meka, karanga ratou ratou noa "te ora kotahi".

Tīaroaro o enei iwi, kia huri ki runga ki nga tau, e rua i roto i te kotahi me te i roto i te tahi atu i te aronga. Au ahau noa kia watea i etahi wā i roto i to ratou oraraa. He pera ngāwari, hāneanea me te awhiawhi ratou. whakapono ratou e anake i roto i tenei ara e taea e māia i roto i to ratou heke mai, e kore e kore ratou i pahua.